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\nDoes “inner freedom” seem to elude you, always just outside your reach no matter what you do?
\nDid you know the worst thing that can happen to you is just a thought?
\nDid you know all that clarity you seek … you already have?
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\nAsh Ruiz is a fascinating human being.
\nAs a teenager, he was a member of the latin boy band, Menudo, one of the most successful music groups in history.
\nAsh is also one of my dearest friends, and a man whose presence in my life changed everything.
\nI met Ash in Miami, in 2005, and soon after spent about 6 years managing his wildly talented and inspiring music band, Here II Here, which he formed with 4 other talented men and musicians a few years after leaving Menudo \u2026 but he did something else wild and fascinating after Menudo, before Here II Here.
\nWhen all his fellow Menuditos, like Ricky Martin, were working to uplevel their fame with solo albums and soap opera appearances, Ash quietly left the spotlight and went to the jungles of Peru for a few years, where he met that pungent shamanic medicine jungle brew, ayahuasca, which ripped his eyes and heart wide open to deeper spiritual truths beneath twinkling star-studded flying-saucer skies.
\nIn fact, you should go listen to Here II Here (on spotify) and Ash\u2019s music (here) because his music, like his everyday being, which you\u2019ll meet in a moment, is DRENCHED with the spirit of Ash\u2019s awakening experiences.
\nI had the great privilege of touring with Ash and the band all over North America for 12 months in 2009 and 10 in a Dodge Durango SUV hauling a 12-foot trailer full of instruments, CDs, and dreams. We performed over 150 concerts in 80+ cities where we slept in the homes of countless fans who gave us not just beds and living room floors and couches and backyard tents and once even a barn to sleep in, but they gave us so much love, too … Ash\u2019s and Here II Here\u2019s songs, their talent for making inspired music come alive on stage, enraptured and inspired everyone who fortunate to experience them during their 14 year run. We heard stories of fans playing their music when birthing their children, and one fan played their song, Holy, on his deathbed, with his family surrounding him, as he transitioned from this life into the next.
\nThrough his music, his presence, his being, and especially his laughter which you\u2019ll get to experience in this fun, inspired conversation, Ash has been a profound gift in my life. He\u2019s the guru I never wanted, but so glad I had, because his influence runs throughout my life\u2019s work as a thriving life coach to men, women, and couples, particularly in my emphasis on learning to see EVERYTHING that happens around us not as something happening TO us, but rather something that is always happening FOR our benefit, even if we can\u2019t yet see it.
\nI\u2019m super excited to share Ash\u2019s presence and wit and wisdom with you.
\nAlright \u2026 Let\u2019s dive \u2026
\nSHOW NOTES
\n15:04 ~ A significant experience in Ash\u2019s early life
\n20:30 ~ \u201cThe worst thing that can ever happen to me is just a thought\u201d
\n23:33 ~ Not buying into what \u201chas to\u201d happen
\n26:37 ~ The experience of Here II Here\u2019s breakup despite great expectations
\n31:13 ~ Ash\u2019s ayahuasca journey to the jungles of Peru
\n35:40 ~ Contentment vs. achievement
\n37:01 ~ Love and personal boundaries
\n41:05 ~ \u201cThe road to hell is paved with good intentions\u201d
\n43:25 ~ What men need to know to have fulfilling intimate relationships
\n45:54 ~ The power of willingness
\n49:28 ~ Finding the third way
\n51:07 ~ Favorite memories of touring with Here II Here
\n55:12 ~ \u201c5 KEY TAKEWAYS\u201d FINALE
\n55:38 ~\xa0KEY INSIGHT:\xa0You are not your thoughts