Lori Gottlieb is a contributing writer at The Atlantic and the author of Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. Her new book is Maybe You Should Talk to Someone.\n\n\u201cEverything that I had done all coalesced into one thing. As a journalist i was helping people to tell their stories, as a therapist I could help people to edit their stories, to change their stories. I could be immersed in the human condition in both of these things.\u201d\n\nThanks to Mailchimp, Pitt Writers, Native, and Squarespace for sponsoring this week's episode.\n\n\n\n\n@LoriGottlieb1\n\n\nlorigottlieb.com\n\n\nGottlieb's archive at The Atlantic\n\n\n[2:57] Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed (Houghton Mifflin \u2022 2019)\n\n\n[03:53] Lori Gottlieb's TED Talk: \u201cHow Changing Your Story Can Change Your Life\u201d(2019)\n\n\n[9:46] \u201cSlate Diary: Lori Gottlieb\u201d (Slate \u2022 1998)\n\n\n[11:35] \u201cMarry Him! The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough\u201d (The Atlantic \u2022 2008)\n\n\n[11:36] Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough (E.P. Dutton \u2022 2010)\n\n\n[15:51] Modern Romance (Aziz Ansari \u2022 Penguin \u2022 2015)\n\n\n[19:44] \u201cHow to Land Your Kid in Therapy: Why the Obsession with our Kids\u2019 Happiness May be Dooming them to Unhappy Adulthoods\u201d (The Atlantic \u2022 2011)\n\n\n[25:38] "Dear Therapist" column archive at The Atlantic\n\n\n[40:39] Couples Therapy (2019)\n\n\n[54:34] Guy Winch's TEDTalk: \u201cWhy We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid\u201d(2014)\n\n\n[55:08] \u201cABC Nabs \u2018Maybe You Should Talk To Someone\u2019 Therapist Drama From Maggie Friedman & Eva Longoria Based On Book\u201d (Deadline \u2022 2018)\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices