download this episode If contrast is as important as conscious creators are taught, why are we so quick to coach loved ones out of it when the proverbial sh*t hits the fan? Since we know the essential\xa0role it plays in creating happily-ever-afters, wouldn't a more appropriate response be to offer a high five or a congratulatory thumbs up? Is it really possible to be excited about things going wrong? This is an invitation to rethink our approach\xa0when we see someone we love\xa0in struggle or strife. (Including ourselves!) Read more on the subject here.