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Often times reason we play small in life is because we are more concerned about pleasing others. Our playing small serves no one so why would we be concerned about pleasing others so much? It is because our stepping out and playing big could cost us our reputation. It could mean loss of acceptance or approval from others. And that, to the Ego, means separation from the tribe, and not being loved. 

The greatest fears we have in life is not being loved but also the fear of being ourselves. It sounds cliche to just be yourself but in reality with all the noise and cultural influences, it is hard to know who we really are to begin with.

We are taught about many subjects in educational system growing up except ourselves. And that is a problem when we get into the real world because each of us is unique and are wired in different ways that can be difficult for many to mold into society's model of success (which should not be the intention of the individual). To live successfully and fulfilled is to be free from that mold and move towards our unique calling. And when we get the right education and learn about ourselves, we can start to explore our potential and be our authentic selves and live in alignment with who we are and our mission in life. And in turn, be of greater service to others and actually have others we care about love and respect us. The courage to be ourselves with creative expression creates a ripple effect on others because you let your light shine on them. And if it's too bright for them to handle, don't worry. Love and move forward!