Grappling night was always fun for Jane. It was a good chance to work on her escapes and submissions. She love \u201crolling\u2019 with everyone and tapping out, or escaping from the big guys was her personal challenge. As she hit the mat Jane found herself being pulled into Davey\u2019s guard. Even though he was on his back, he was strong, and she felt his legs closing tight around her waist.
\nAs Davey attempted a head and arm hold Jane verbally said, \u201cNope not tonight buddy!\u201d and all at once smashed her knee into his tail bone, and straightened her back releasing his grip as he tried to pull her back into his weakened position. In one swift move Jane REMOVED her center, by breaking his ankles he was attempting to lock around her, and pulling back, popping his knees with the palms of her hands as she quickly stood up, avoiding a kick to her pretty face.
\nShe was laughing with giddiness at her success, and Davey\u2019s frustrated scowl. The instructor blew her whistle to signal the end of the session as Jane gloated in her success.
\nIn life, as in grappling, control of \u201ccenter,\u201d meaning the place where power is generated for all human motion, is key. Maintaining \u201ccontrol of center\u201d is essential. When we find ourselves loosing control of center, we also find our motion stopped, and manipulated by outside forces. When we REMOVE our center from the control, and motion and balance is regained.
\nAs we are always in the chaos of conflict maintaining or regaining \u201ccenter\u201d is powerful and may save our life. When you find yourself loosing center REMOVE yourself from whatever, or whoever is controlling your center before it\u2019s too late. REMOVE yourself to protect your center. REMOVE\u2026
\nAllen Hughes Life Defense Coach
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