Designing Meaningful Stories from Daily Life with Kit Pang

Published: May 25, 2020, 10:57 a.m.

b'Kit Pang is the founder of BostonSpeaks and a public speaking coach at Harvard Business School. He has worked with speakers ranging from NFL Players and Three Star Michelin Chefs to Fortune 500 CEOs and TEDx Speakers. He is on a mission to help individuals become exceptional speakers and communicators.\\n\\nLEADERSHIP INSIGHTS\\n\\n- Story telling is the greatest \\u201cstate of the heart\\u201d technology that anyone can use.\\n- To tell a good story, keep three things in mind: 1. The time and place, 2. The situation, and 3. The thinking, actions, and feelings.\\n- When you are creating your Powerpoint, what are you feeling? If you\\u2019re feeling nothing, your audience will probably feel the same.\\n- Your stories should always have a point so people are very clear why they are being told the story.\\n- The PREP method of story development: Point, Reason, Example, Point.\\n- Stories always have to attach themselves to a point \\u2013 especially in the business world\\n- Four reasons why you get scared in front of people: 1. You haven\\u2019t reached task mastery. Solution: Practice! And take more risk each time. 2. It\\u2019s high stakes in your mind. Solution: Realize it\\u2019s not high stakes in anyone else\\u2019s mind. Get out of your own head! 3. You don\\u2019t know how to control your adrenaline. Solution: Use your adrenaline to give yourself and your audience that energy. 4. It\\u2019s in your DNA. Some people have more of a predisposition to nervousness.\\n\\nQUESTIONS TO INSPIRE US TO ACTION\\n\\n- What is some lesson, saying, or experience that continues to influence your leadership to this day? Learning how to rise to obstacles rather than fall to them.\\n- Use three descriptors to finish this sentence: \\u201cA leader is\\u2026\\u201d Brave, conscious, and light-hearted.\\n- What is a question that leaders should be asking either themselves or others? What\\u2019s in it for them?\\n- What book would you recommend to leaders? Everybody Wins: The Story and Lessons Behind RE/MAX by Keith Hollihan and Phil Harkins\\n- If you could get every listener to start doing something THIS week to help them be a better leader, what would it be? Sleep earlier.\\n- As a general life principle, is it better to ask \\u201cwhy?\\u201d or \\u201cwhy not?\\u201d \\u201cWhy?\\u201d Just like a kid, ask \\u201cwhy?\\u201d\\n\\nWebsite:\\nhttps://www.bostonspeaks.com/\\n\\nContact:\\nkit@bostonspeaks.com\\n\\nFind Kit on social media:\\nTwitter: https://twitter.com/Boston_Speaks (@Boston_Speaks)\\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/boston_speaks/ (@Boston_Speaks)\\nLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kitpang/ (in/kitpang)'