How Jon Levy Masterfully Connects Celebrities and Influential People (And How You Can Too)

Published: May 1, 2021, 1 p.m.

b"The greatest predictor of human longevity, apart from genetics, is close ties and social integration. According to today\\u2019s guest, research has shown that even the success of a business can be traced back to the oxytocin levels (the chemical released when you feel a connection) found in the bodies of its employees. Jon Levy is the founder and host of Influencers, a private organization that arranges dining experiences dedicated to bringing together exceptional people and thought leaders. He is also a behavioral scientist and author who has a new book coming out, titled You Are Invited, about how to create connection, trust, and a sense of belonging. In this episode, John talks about how the human brain is wired for novelty, why networking events and swag bags are a waste of time, and how to genuinely foster human connection. Tune in and learn about the IKEA effect, the Mere-exposure effect, and an art heist at the Louvre that will blow your mind!\\n TIME-STAMPED SHOW NOTES:\\n [00:13] An introduction to Jon Levy.\\n [01:48] John talks bout the dinners he hosts with 12 high-profile people who can only share their names or professions once they have cooked a meal together.\\xa0\\xa0\\n [02:30] How the human brain is wired for novelty: people do really well when they\\u2019re doing something just outside their skillset.\\xa0\\n [03:45] The state of peaking in performance: when you\\u2019re doing something that\\u2019s fully engaging, you lose all sense of self-consciousness.\\n [05:01] Jon talks about Shane Snow\\u2019s book, Smartcuts, and the value of momentum.\\xa0\\n [06:31] Jon shares his background as a human behavioral psychologist\\n [07:55] Thoughts on Youtuber, MrBeast.\\n [09:09] Jon\\u2019s main focus on increasing the connections between people.\\n [10:50] How the definition of a close friend has changed: why Gen Z is the loneliest generation.\\xa0\\n [11:45] An introduction to Jon\\u2019s book, You're Invited; how to create connection, trust, and a sense of belonging.\\n [13:04] Why Jon wrote the book: to share the importance of and misunderstandings about human connection.\\n [14:38] Jon explains the IKEA effect and why we care about what we put effort into.\\n [16:05] Using his book as a guide to figure out the ideal way to connect with people.\\n [16:43] Jon addresses some of the commonly held misperceptions about how to meet people.[17:38] Why he found memorable stories to demonstrate his lessons.\\xa0\\n [18:37] An example of one of his stories is an art heist at the Louvre that demonstrates the Mere-exposure effect.\\xa0\\n [21:54] What else is Jon reading: Breathe about the Wim Hof method of fire breathing.\\n [23:25] What breathwork has done for Jon.\\n [26:30] How to find Jon\\u2019s book and other resources.\\n \\xa0\\n Resources From The Interview:\\n \\xa0\\n Jon Levy\\n \\xa0\\n You\\u2019re Invited\\xa0\\n You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence\\n \\xa0\\n Influencers\\n \\xa0\\n Smartcuts\\n \\xa0\\n MrBeast\\n \\xa0\\n The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure\\n Breathe\\n \\xa0\\n \\xa0\\n Leave Some Feedback:\\n \\xa0\\n \\xa0\\n What should I talk about next?\\xa0Who should I interview? Please let me know on Twitter or in the comments below.\\n Did you enjoy this episode?\\xa0If so, please leave a short review here\\n\\n Subscribe to Leveling Up on iTunes\\n\\n Get the non-iTunes RSS Feed\\n\\n \\xa0\\n \\xa0\\n Connect with Eric Siu:\\xa0\\n \\xa0\\n \\xa0\\n Growth Everywhere\\n Single Grain\\n Eric Siu on Twitter\\n \\xa0\\n \\xa0\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices"