The Chaser and the Runner: The Pattern that Destroys a Relationship
b'The chaser and the runner, the pursurer and the distancer, the anxious and the avoidant. The push and the pull. This pattern is one of the most common patterns in a relationship and it causes an immense amount of suffering. Jillian teaches that this cycle goes beyond attachement theory and describes how our needs for both connection AND autonomy are the reason behind everyone will struggle with this cycle many times throughout their love lives.\\xa0\\n~~\\nFollow the show on Instagram:\\xa0@jillianonlove\\nEmail the show at\\xa0hello@jillianonlove.com\\nSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on\\xa0Apple Podcasts\\xa0or\\xa0Patreon\\nFind Resources mentioned in the show at the\\xa0Jillian on Love Recommendations\\n\\nFollow Jillian Turecki on\\nInstagram:\\xa0@jillianturecki\\nTik Tok:\\xa0@jillian.turecki\\nTwitter:\\xa0@JillianTurecki\\nVisit her website at\\xa0www.jillianturecki.com\\n~~\\nJillian On Love is brought to you by\\xa0QCODE.\\nTo advertise on the show,\\xa0contact us!\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'