Jillian welcomes Esther Perel, a world-renowned psychotherapist, relationship expert, speaker, and bestselling author. In this episode, she explains the difference between erotic intelligence and emotional intelligence, sexuality vs eroticism, and the nuance art of desire in both committed relationships and beyond. She explains how to sustain desire and attraction in a long-term relationship as well as the deeper roots of what causes friction between a couple. Please enjoy this powerful conversation!\xa0\n\nCheck out Esther\u2019s new course, The Desire Bundle and use code JILLIAN15 at checkout for 15% off at https://www.estherperel.com/course-bundles/the-desire-bundle\n\nPre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book\n\n~~\n\nFollow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove\n\nEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.com\xa0\n\nSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon\n\nFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations\n\nFollow Jillian Turecki on\n\nInstagram: @jillianturecki\n\nTikTok: @jillian.turecki\n\nX: @JillianTurecki\n\nVisit her website at jillianturecki.com\n\n~~\n\nJillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.\n\nTo advertise on the show, contact us!\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices