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Going through different stages of life and relationships is never easy. It\u2019s easy to break down, fall apart or become numb and completely lose yourself along the way. Lisa Bilyeu has experience with navigating change and transitioning from a traditional supportive housewife to being the badass CEO and Co-founder of Impact Theory she now is. In this episode, Lisa and Tom reflect and share the lessons they\u2019ve stumbled through along the way over the last 19 years of marriage to support Lisa\u2019s awakening. Join them as they deep dive into how to get beyond the surface level arguments, discover the value of your frame of reference, and what it truly means to evolve together to be supportive. The trip is bumpy, a little messy, not as graceful as you may imagine or believe, but the way they are honest and committed to each other makes it successful and worthwhile every time.\xa0Check Out Relationship Theory for solid relationship advice at every stage: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtHuUTWVRHUXVjmRrvS8WYg\xa0\n\nSHOW NOTES: \n0:00 | Introduction Lisa Bilyeu \n2:36 | Why Love Isn\u2019t Enough \n3:24 | The Gap Between Love & Divorce \n4:43 | Change Impacting Relationships \n6:03 | Not Understanding Each Other \n7:16 | Surface Level Arguments \n10:15 | Find the Frame of Reference \n16:46 | Preparing for Disruptive Changes \n22:04 | Self Soothing Through Change \n23:06 | Embracing Change Together \n30:42 | Evolving Plans Call for Change \n31:58 | When Personality Changes \n39:02 | Making The Transitions Work \n42:02 | Pivot from CEO To Cuddly Wife \n45:23 | What You Need vs. Want \n48:35 | Power In Being Needed \n52:18 | Why You Have To Communicate \n57:18 | Emphasis of Feelings \n1:01:28 | Own Your Triggers & Insecurities\xa0\n\nCheck out our sponsors:\xa0\nIndeed: Get a FREE $75 CREDIT to upgrade your job post at indeed.com/IMPACT \nPhocus: Get 20% OFF a 12 pack case with discount code IMPACT at checkout. drinkphocus.com \nTommy John: Get 20% OFF your FIRST ORDER at tommyjohn.com/impact \nTruebill: Go to Truebill.com/IMPACT \nBlinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/impact Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. \n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nIf you\u2019re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.\nWant to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.\xa0\nThis is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.\nSubscription Benefits:\n\nUnlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to Tom\u2019s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list\n\nYou\u2019ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:\n\n\nLegendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement\n\n\nMoney Mindset: Business & Finance\n\n\nRelationship Theory: Relationships\n\n\nHealth Theory: Mental & Physical Health\n\n\nPower Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes\xa0\n\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices