On Today's Episode: What version of success are you aiming for? Are you aiming for the rich life that looks flashy on the outside but broke and falling apart on the inside? Do the people that most inspire you have overnight success and hidden struggles or do they have a trail of lessons they share for you to learn from?\nMel Robbins is the queen of real! She has shared her struggles openly and unapologetically with the intention of helping someone out there experiencing real sh*t that needs to see what\u2019s possible when you learn to struggle well, be resilient, and take the lessons life keeps handing you.\nLike her previous episodes on Impact Theory, Mel Robbins is giving you the real deal of what a messy authentic journey to success looks like from the inside out and from the bottom up. Key takeaways from this episode you can\u2019t miss is becoming a student of whatever it is you want to become. Study and master the experiences your decisions create and find ways to transform those lessons into unstoppable success.\n\u201cSuccess is not final; failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.\u201d Winston Churchill\n\nSHOW NOTES:\n0:00 | Introduction to Mel Robbins\n0:12 | 3 Habits for Success\n17:16 | Align Action for Success\n37:19 | Reframe the Painful Lessons\n44:50 | Mel\u2019s Major Breakthrough\n1:03:12 | Transformational Therapies\n1:29:46 | Frame of Reference & Beliefs\n\nFollow Mel Robbins:\nWebsite: https://melrobbins.com/\nTwitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins\nFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins/\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/\nYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins\n\nBuild IRONCLAD discipline in this FREE workshop: https://bit.ly/3RUnYux\nButcherBox: Sign up at ButcherBox.com/impact\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nIf you\u2019re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.\nWant to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.\xa0\nThis is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.\nSubscription Benefits:\n\nUnlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to Tom\u2019s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list\n\nYou\u2019ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:\n\n\nLegendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement\n\n\nMoney Mindset: Business & Finance\n\n\nRelationship Theory: Relationships\n\n\nHealth Theory: Mental & Physical Health\n\n\nPower Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes\xa0\n\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices