If You Struggle with Conflict in Your Relationship, Listen To This | Tom Bilyeu on Women of Impact

Published: June 26, 2020, 12:30 p.m.

On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu talk about how to deal with differing values and opposing ideas. They discuss creating shared goals, how they build positive habits, and their methods of making sure that conversations stay open, respectful and honest. And then they give a wonderful example of good communication by examining a real life conflict they have had over making the bed... \n\nSHOW NOTES: \nWhen you are having arguments about money, you are really having conflicts over values [2:48] \nConcrete advice on how to minimize financial conflicts [6:59] \nWhen you have a collision of values, part of it is that you are judging each other [9:07] \nWhy you have to start with shared goals and open discussion of those goals [11:02] \nTom and Lisa discuss corporal punishment, spanking and discipline [14:08] \nTom and Lisa talk about having differing religious beliefs and how they dealt with it [19:50] \nWhat do you do when your habits and routines conflict? [23:47] \nHow to form habits that help your relationship [27:13] \nWhenever you have conflicts over \u201csmall issues\u201d, they are actually about deep values [31:10] \nThe problems that happen when you don\u2019t articulate your values and just project instead [36:47]\xa0\n\nFOLLOW LISA: \nInstagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh \nYouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH \nPodcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW\xa0\n\nFOLLOW TOM: \nWEBSITE: impacttheory.com \nINSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/33XrFYV \nFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2xDM4Xa \nTWITTER: https://bit.ly/39slhdy\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nIf you\u2019re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.\nWant to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.\xa0\nThis is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.\nSubscription Benefits:\n\nUnlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to Tom\u2019s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list\n\nYou\u2019ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:\n\n\nLegendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement\n\n\nMoney Mindset: Business & Finance\n\n\nRelationship Theory: Relationships\n\n\nHealth Theory: Mental & Physical Health\n\n\nPower Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes\xa0\n\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices