There are few things in life more special than experiencing a lifelong love with a partner that you can grow and evolve with through anything. How can you create that experience with so many complexities and confusion around how to come together and get on the same page?\nTom Bilyeu is not only a co-founder of Quest Nutrition, he\u2019s also the co-founder and business partner of Impact Theory alongside Lisa Bilyeu. They\u2019ve officially passed 20 years of marriage, of navigating each other\u2019s identities, ambitions and health scares and come from zero to a billion and are still going?\nRelationships are hard enough without the addition of outside stress and pressure, but you\u2019ve figured that out. So, then what has Tom and Lisa figured out over 20 years that\u2019s helped them survive their toughest year together? 2022 was a year that would have broken most relationships and this episode is a candid look into the level of communication and commitment that Tom and Lisa have developed through the years.\nRelationship takeaways from this episode:\nHave a shared vision of the future you can move towards together\nMajority of relationship problems are a frame of reference problem\nThere\u2019s often an insecurity at the base of your anger, know what it is to resolve conflict\nEmotions feel like fact, proceed with caution\nWrite down 5-10 values in every area of your life in a single sentence and order them.\n\nFollow Tom Bilyeu:\nWebsite: https://impacttheory.com/\nTwitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu\nFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/\n\nDownload For FREE: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here! - https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d\nCheck out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5\n\nSponsors:\nGet $500 off Peloton Tread Packages that come with accessories like a heart rate band, workout mat and non-slip dumbbells. Just go to onepeleton.com to get the deal.\nVisit http://www.houseofmacadmais.com/impact and use code impact for 20% OFF your first purchase!\nFor listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://www.calm.com/impact.\xa0\nHead over to http://www.mindpumpimpact.com to find the 5 most impactful Mind Pump fitness episodes that will transform your body and your life.\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nIf you\u2019re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.\nWant to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.\xa0\nThis is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.\nSubscription Benefits:\n\nUnlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to Tom\u2019s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list\n\nYou\u2019ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:\n\n\nLegendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement\n\n\nMoney Mindset: Business & Finance\n\n\nRelationship Theory: Relationships\n\n\nHealth Theory: Mental & Physical Health\n\n\nPower Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes\xa0\n\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices