Life coach to billionaire and one of the greatest influencers of all time, Brendon Burchard knows exactly how to make an impact. So, on this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Brendon details precisely how to achieve impossibly high performance, evaluate yourself and your goals, and deal with failure and stress. And he does it all while still bringing his trademark joy and revealing the qualities that have allowed him to build and maintain exceptional relationships and a vibrant community. Oh, and he still repels all the jerks! \n\nThis episode is brought to you by: \nButcher Box: Wings for life is back! Get 3lbs of chicken wings in every box for the life of your subscription plus $20 off your first box when you sign up at butcherbox.com/IMPACT or enter promo code IMPACT at checkout. \nSkillshare: Explore your creativity at skillshare.com/impacttheory for 2 free months of Premium Membership. \nBetter Help: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/impacttheory \n\nSHOW NOTES:\xa0\nBrendon shares the story of being suicidal, then being in a nearly fatal accident [3:03] \nBrendon describes becoming obsessive about learning leadership and psychology [4:53] \nYour life is determined by each decision you make, every day [7:20] \nBrendon describes his self-evaluation and visualization process [10:33] \nHow to observe your life dispassionately [17:55] \nBrendon explains how to deal with failures and feeling bad [21:04] \nGoing through the motions is the death of high performance [24:29] \nTom and Brendon discuss leveraging guilt and pain, courage and contemplation [25:56] \nBrendon strongly advocates the need for community [29:48] \nTom advocates learning to endure hardship, failure and stress [31:50] \nBrendon advocates allowing joy and deep pleasure [34:45] \nBrendon explains how he came to value relationships so deeply [39:05] \nWhat one change could people make to have more of an impact [43:27]\xa0\n\nFOLLOW:\xa0WEBSITE: brendon.com\xa0INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/36lTIBy\xa0FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2E3vVdy\xa0TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2RIHy1c\xa0\xa0\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nIf you\u2019re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.\nWant to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.\xa0\nThis is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.\nSubscription Benefits:\n\nUnlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to Tom\u2019s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list\n\nYou\u2019ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:\n\n\nLegendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement\n\n\nMoney Mindset: Business & Finance\n\n\nRelationship Theory: Relationships\n\n\nHealth Theory: Mental & Physical Health\n\n\nPower Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes\xa0\n\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices