8. My wife is spending too much money
b'Natalia prioritizes experiences over finances. She doesn\\u2019t want to miss out on life, so if she wants to visit her family, she doesn\\u2019t wait to check their budget -- she gets on a plane. Andres, on the other hand, worries about money. He remembers growing up without money and doesn\'t want to go back there again. He\'s pushing to save, invest, and anticipate what\'s coming around the corner \\u2013 especially now that they have a son.\\xa0\\nThey\\u2019ve both become used to only talking about money in the heat of the moment. Because of their different perspectives on money, they\\u2019ve adopted roles in their relationship: Natalia says she\\u2019s the overspender, while Andres is the worrier who tries to tamp down on spending.\\nThis is a classic push and pull role you see in so many couples. But as I dig in, you\\u2019ll discover some fascinating reasons behind the roles they\\u2019ve given themselves.\\nListen as I flip the switch on Andres\'s approach to the conversation he\'s having with Natalia. What if "we can\'t afford to go away" turned to "what trips would you like to plan for the future?" What if money planning was part of a planned conversation instead of a heated clash? What if talking about money was based on possibility instead of scarcity?\\xa0\\nListen in to this conversation with Natalia and Andres.\\nConnect with Ramit\\n\\nWebsite\\n\\nInstagram\\n\\nTwitter\\n\\nFacebook\\n\\nYouTube\\n\\nLinkedin\\n\\n\\nProduced by Crate Media.'