3. My husband is going broke, but he wont let me help

Published: Aug. 6, 2021, 7 a.m.

b'Calvin feels he needs to be the \\u201cman of the house\\u201d and pay for everything. There\\u2019s just one problem: He can\\u2019t afford it. Every month he\\u2019s in the red, leading him to be anxious around money.\\nChantha likes to spend money on nice things and feels Calvin is too cheap with his money. The two of them feel stuck because of their different views on money. And, to make things even more complicated, Calvin \\u2013 by conventional definitions \\u2013 is rich. He and Chanta bring in $250k a year, and based on their savings rate, they\\u2019re on track to become multimillionaires.\\nAs you listen, notice their backgrounds. What led Calvin to feel this way about money? What motivates a husband to take on such a burden and how can Chantha and Calvin find a middle ground of comfort where they can build a future together? Pay particularly close attention to our discussion around vacation at the end of the episode.\\nConnect with Ramit\\n\\nWebsite\\n\\nInstagram\\n\\nTwitter\\n\\nFacebook\\n\\nYouTube\\n\\nLinkedin\\n\\n\\nProduced by Crate Media.'