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“How long are you going to wait until you demand the best from yourself?” -Epictetus I share 18 lessons with my 18-year-old self.  #2 is: Don’t fear being different. That’s your advantage. #4 is: No one cares about your college grades. #14 is: Finding the truth is more important than being right. #17 is: What does life want from you? National median home prices eased from June to July—from $414K to $404K.  Homebuilders are in a recession. However, available housing supply is still low and demand is high. Almost every human is forgotten in four generations. Is a housing price crash imminent? You get a clear “yes” or “no” answer. The NAR says that today’s first-time homebuyer is: 33 years old (oldest ever), $86,500 household income, $252K median purchase price, 7% down payment, and 37% carry student debt. Average size is 1,640 sf. If you’d like to advertise with us, visit: GetRichEducation.com/Contact  Resources mentioned: Show Notes: www.GetRichEducation.com/412 Median sale price eases: https://www.wsj.com/articles/existing-home-sales-prices-housing-market-july-2022-11660774574 Median US house price historic chart: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/MSPUS Get mortgage loans for investment property: RidgeLendingGroup.com or call 855-74-RIDGE  or e-mail: info@RidgeLendingGroup.com JWB’s available Florida income property: www.jwbrealestate.com/gre or (904) 677-6777 To learn more about eQRPs: text “GRE” to 307-213-3475 or: eQRP.co Available Central Florida new-build income properties: www.b2rdirect.com Analyze your RE portfolio at: (use code “GRE”): MyPropertyStats.com  Best Financial Education: GetRichEducation.com Get our free, wealth-building “Don’t Quit Your Daydream Letter”: www.GetRichEducation.com/Letter Our YouTube Channel: www.youtube.com/c/GetRichEducation Top Properties & Providers: GREmarketplace.com Follow us on Instagram: @getricheducation Keith’s personal Instagram: @keithweinhold   Today’s episode transcript:   Welcome to GRE! I’m your host, Keith Weinhold. Learn 18 profound life lessons I’ve learned that I wish I could share with my 18-year-old self… and… has the time come?    After the looong & sometimes steep housing price runup, is a housing price crash finally imminent? And what’s the future direction of the housing market? Today, on Get Rich Education. ___________________   Welcome to GRE! From Red Deer, Alberta to Red Rock State Park, AZ and across 188 nations worldwide… I’m Keith Weinhold. THIS is Get Rich Education.   The voice of real estate investing… 412 weeks in a row… since 2014.   I hope that you’re having a great week!   You know, I have seemingly been a late bloomer in almost every way in life that you can conceive.   But as some say, “many people never bloom at all”. Alright, well enough. But look…   I was almost 18 years old when I graduated high school, just like - perhaps you - and many people are. But I looked like I was 13 then.    I was among the very last in my class to experience puberty there at Coudersport High School, Pennsylvania.    This is one reason that I could not attract a high school girlfriend or get a prom date. Even though… I asked a girl to prom and she said “no”.    As underdeveloped and impressionable as I was then, here are 18 lessons that I want to share with my 18-year-old self.   I wish that I could share these lessons that I’ve learned now with my 18-year-old self:   You Know Nothing. But You're Not Alone. You have so much to learn, 18-year-old Keith. So don't act like you know it all. Society actually likes when you're genuinely inquisitive and want to learn.   What about you? Can’t you sense when someone acts like a know-it-all? It’s not something that you want to be around. Back to advising my 18-year-old self.   Don't Fear Being Different. That's Your Advantage. In high school and even college, winners fit in. In the real world, winners stand out. In fact, avoid normalcy. It's a synonym for mediocrity.   Work To Learn. After that, work to earn.   No One Cares About Your College Grades. For your interests, college is optional, not mandatory—regardless of what your friends are doing. Find an energy for learning. Be autodidactic (an autodidact means a self-taught person). Focus on becoming a person of value.   Keep Moving. Health is wealth. Prioritize physical exercise over moneymaking. No matter WHAT you choose to do, you'll be living inside that same body when you're age 100.   Failure Can Be Alright, Even Good. In school, you learned that mistakes are bad and should be avoided. A failure that you recuperate from demonstrates that you tried. You learned a lesson. In fact, DECORATE your failures so much that you should go ahead and tell others how bad you failed; they'll either relate to you or they’ll learn from you.   Don't Follow Paths Others Have Made. Others guide you. But create your own map. If you're soullessly trading your time for dollars at a job, you need to design yourself an escape route so that you can quit as soon as possible. If you’re selling your time that way - stop it. Your life is made up of chapters of time. This is not a dress rehearsal. This is your life.   Research, Commit, Then Be Consistent. Prepare for disappointment. Most people won't be as committed as you. Showing up on time is a commitment, so is marriage.   Learn About Investing In Real Estate. Everyone needs it. It's made more ordinary people wealthy than anything else.   Keep Real Estate And Emotions Separate. Facts trump feelings. It's 99% about: market, management, and income exceeding expenses.   Make Grandma Proud. Pretend that she's watching you. Live a life that's exemplary in what you say and do. You might remember me mentioning my late Grandma Weinhold here on the show.   Be Present. Don't over-anticipate future moments and events. They are less important than the present. Otherwise, you'll miss out on your entire life. Your life will never not be now. Appreciate "now".   Who Your Friends Are Matters. Jim Rohn said: "You are the average of the five people that you spend the most time with." Take the average of your closest five's: values, their athleticism, their ethics, wealth, fashion sense, travel, neighborhood quality, and family structure—that's nearly who you will BECOME.   Finding The Truth Is More Important Than Being Right. People respect you when you say: "I was wrong. Here's why." more than trying to defend some antiquated or faulty belief.   Give. Money is an abundant resource. You will have a great ability to give. Generosity is championed in the Bible. It's Aristotle's third virtue. It will make you feel happy, it's good for your health, contagious, and spurs gratitude. This ossifies your net "value add" to the world.   Mentors Matter. Others see you in a way that you cannot. You'll simply never be able to see yourself in a way that others can. You’ll meet people smarter than you; ask them for their help.   What Does Life Want From You? As I learned from Eckhart Tolle, don't ask: "What do I want from life?" A more powerful question is: "What does life want from me?" (And you’ll remember that I mentioned this one last week on the show here and took a deeper dive on it.)   And the 18th and final lesson that I’d like to go back and share with my 18-year-old self is… Build. Anthropologists suggest that almost every person is forgotten after three generations. At your trajectory, what will your legacy be? Why and how will you be remembered?   They are the 18 lessons.   The stoic Epictetus said one of the most profound motivational things ever… and it’s in the form of a question. Epictetus said: "How long are you going to wait before you demand the best for yourself?" Yeah, that is his question.   At least here on this Earth, this is your last life ever.    Now, as much as some of those 18 might resonate with you… and maybe you want to share those with someone in your life… I’ve seriously got to ask…   (Laugh) If I had read those as an 18-year-old, knowing that I wrote them a couple decades later, would I have ever listened to those as an 18-year-old?    I don’t know. I probably wouldn’t have changed my behavior on some of them… but a few.   I’ve also got to wonder, in another 20 years, will these change? 20 years from now, would I be advising my 18-year-old self any differently?   Now, I discussed in there how anthropologists suggest that most every human is forgotten in 3 to 4 generations.   Sadly, quite a few people are forgotten 3 to 4 minutes after their death. And many more, within 3 to 4 hours, 3 to 4 days, or 3 to 4 weeks after their death. Of course, your children will remember you longer, and your spouse of, say, 50 years will remember you longer. Realistically, LOTS of people are soon forgotten because they never did anything worth remembering.  Good people are forgotten. People that never caused any trouble or uproar.  They kept their lawns mowed. They kept their cars clean.  But nothing notable worth remembering, like caring for lost animals or handicapped children or always remembering their friends’ birthdays. For a thoughtful person, it is wise to consider from time to time “what have I done recently, that people will want to remember?”. Of course, we should all do every day all those things necessary to be a good neighbor, a good landlord, and a good citizen.  If you don’t do that, you may be remembered because you were such a slob, or took care of your house so badly, or didn’t bother to shave and shower regularly. But assuming you are doing everything so that absolutely no one will be offended or annoyed, then you have to do something special if you are going to be remembered for longer than a few days or a few weeks. Let’s recognize something. Abraham Lincoln died six or seven generations ago. He is remembered with respect and honor.  John Wilkes Booth died just a few days after Lincoln. He is remembered with scorn and despising. So it is a mixed blessing, for you to be remembered. For most peo