Today we\u2019re taking aim at something that so very many of us do--especially those of\xa0us with kids, although it\u2019s certainly not reserved for the parents of the world--and\xa0we tend to do it unconsciously. Or, if we\u2019re aware of it, we probably think it\u2019s\xa0actually a good thing to do for other people. Here\u2019s what it is, and why it\u2019s not great.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices