When you fail, or mess up, or don\u2019t get what you want, it is a bummer. But if you look a little deeper, there\u2019s always a lesson in it. While I don\u2019t advocate glossing over the hurt, I do absolutely believe that when you ask yourself, \u201cWhat is this experience here to teach me?\u201d it helps you grow. And that\u2019s what being a better person is all about.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices