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We are responsible for the choices we make, so when our lives fall apart, we have to take responsibility for the part we play and not push the blame off on other people. \n\nYou took the wrong turn, you gave the wrong person your love, you put up with foolishness, you didn\u2019t know when to say no, you turned down that opportunity, you cheated, you gave up on yourself. The list can go on and on, but you get where I am going. Here is how you can take responsibility for your life:\n\n1. Stop The Blame Game. When you blame other people and other things, all you are doing is making yourself out to be the victim. Doing this makes it harder for you to change. Why because it\u2019s always someone else\u2019s fault and never yours; so why should you change? Example: When your ex breaks your heart, ask yourself what role did you play in the downfall? You saw all of the signs and yet you chose to ignore them, and you stayed.\n\n2. Stop Complaining And Do Something About It. This goes without saying, if you aren\u2019t going to fix the problem, then don\u2019t complain about it. You should stop complaining because that issue you are dealing with, may be a blessing in disguise. Think of it as a blessing you didn\u2019t know you needed. \n\n3. Stop Waiting For Someone Else To Make You Happy. Your happiness is nobody else\u2019s responsibility but yours. Waiting on someone to make you happy, may take a lifetime and even then, it\u2019s not guaranteed.\n\n4. Live In The Right Now. You can\u2019t change the past and present isn\u2019t promised to you, so focus only on what you can control right now. We all can learn from our past, so it\u2019s ok to glance over your shoulder to see where you\u2019ve come from or what you\u2019ve been through, but don\u2019t stay there too long. You are the gate keeper of your thoughts, yesterday, today, and always. \n\nBe the reason someone feels welcomed, seen, heard, loved, and supported! As you do that, go out there and be great, because great is calling you and great is calling me. Be blessed, have an amazing day on purpose, and we will talk again next week.\n\nContact Me:\nLinktree: https://linktr.ee/coachchelle\n\n\n--- \n\nSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/michelle4466/support