Pokimane Apology Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NuExff4-ty4
I feel nowadays it's hard to know if someone truly is sorry & if they actually understand what their actions intel or if they do it from the pressure that people push for them to do it.
Is a good person good because they do good but don't believe in the good they do? But do it to get validation?
Is a good person someone who does good bc they feel the choices they make are good? In the end, what is good to a point that what one thinks someone else may see it as the complete opposite. Is a person good if they have bad intentions all the time & hate being good but they still choose to do good even though deep down all they want to do is be bad?
I would say there are many ways to look at this but I think the person who doesn't have empathy or always wants to do bad has a harder time with everyday life choices.
Someone doing good subconsciously vs someone actually thinking about doing good because they are keeping everyone around them in mind. One has to put a bit more effort but they are both still good nonetheless.
How do we ever know if this is truly what poki believes?
I for one don't mind if she takes back her apology and still believes that she is in the right nor do I have a problem with her accepting that she did make bad decisions at the time
What makes it complicated for me, I guess is if what she is saying from her own thought process? Did she take the time to reflect on what she considers to be right or wrong in this manner? What I want from anyone but I guess poki in this situation is to just be their true self.
Not to share everything in their lives but to just be honest. If u don't think you did anything wrong I feel she should own it... so long as she actually reflected on her thoughts and came to a valid conclusion as to why she stands behind her thought process.
If she truly is sorry then that's good as well as long as it's not because she felt pressure or force from all the people sending her hate or all the negative feedback.
I get it's hard being in this situation when any content creator gets a lot of negative feedback. people will agree or disagree you can't please everyone. It doesn't matter who agrees or disagrees with you. As long as you’re choices and your actions are ones you actually thought about and consider thoroughly.
When it comes to the bf situation we arent ever going to know someone's true intentions behind the scene. Could she be hiding her relationship bc she wants to respect her partner? Maybe.
Could she be hiding it because she knows she can monetize it by people donating thinking they have a chance with her? Maybe as well.
Reality is we don't know.
From my view, people have a right to their own privacy they can pick and choose what part of their lives they want to share and which they don't. At the end of the day, there is probably a lot of contexts that I'm missing from all sides to fully get an understanding of every single situation. But as far as I know, from what I know. This is just my perspective on the matter.
At the end of the day, we are all going to have our own opinions on the situation. Some will agree others will disagree. I hope we can somehow find some sort of balance.
All I know is people who will want to hate are going to hate.
The internet is the internet.
When it comes to drama content people want to make videos/content about what they want to make. I doubt leafy and all these other content creators are dumb. They know what their audience wants and know how to milk content to give the fans what they want for those who are sub to that type of content I understand it.
It’s the grind.