Being alone and the life-changing ability to say no

Published: Feb. 20, 2017, 11 a.m.

Dealing with the isolation that comes with freelancing and the magnificent, life-changing power of saying no. 

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Freelance FAQ: How do you deal with isolation when working from home?

It sucks. It really does. Getting over that hump takes a lot of work -- useful, doable work -- but work.

  • Have an immediate support system of friends you can spend non-work time with
  • Stop work immediately at a designated time (Kai's is 4:30pm)
  • Only start work at a certain time (Kai's is 9:30am)
  • Have 2-4 hobbies you’ve cultivated (I like road biking, hiking, weight lifting, and reading) so you can switch to something non-work if you have energy and it’s the evening
  • Track how you’re feeling. Even just in a journal or a journal app like Day1, track how you’re feeling with the isolation and working from home. Mostly negatives? Mostly positives?
  • If the isolation causes you issues -- it very well may -- then look into coworking spaces or sharing an office with an individual or a team to give you that social interaction.

Freelance FAQ: How do you say no?

  • Practice.
  • Realize that you saying no is not a rejection of the client’s idea, but you saying ‘there is a better way to do this.’
  • Be comfortable with the uncomfortableness of saying no. It gets easier over time.
  • Read ‘non-violent communication, a language of life.’
  • Realize that if you don’t say no, you’ll be doing a lot of extra work without compensation; you owe it to yourself to say no.

And if a client pushes back? Either they have a legitimate reason and information you don’t have (good!) or they’re incorrect and a bad client who you should fire.

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