I discuss the importance of seeing the self in others, and the other in the self. Nearly every philosophy, religion, and therapy. From India, to the Abrahamic faith, Nietzsche to Jung all understand this truth. We must see each other as a we/us rather than a them/us. Isa Upanishad. Sutra 6. Koinonia. Upekkha. Equanimity. Healing and hope comes from community as much as oneself. Without a community we do not have a complete self.