Oh no this happened. How do I move forward?

Published: June 30, 2017, 1 p.m.

b'Oh no \\u2013 this happened.\\xa0 How do I move forward?\\n My wife, Joanne, and I have used a concise process for all the years of our marriage. When confronted with a decision, we allow a 2-week maximum for arriving at a decision. Whether it is where to move, what kind of car to purchase, making a career or business decision, or how to handle a difficult relationship with a relative, we approach the process as follows:\\n 1. State the problem.\\n 2. Get the advice and opinions of others.\\n 3. List the alternatives.\\n 4. Choose the best alternative.\\n 5. Act.\\n And we avoid the crippling power of indecision. Yes, this process must be bathed in prayer. But a daily walk of integrity and character should provide confidence in moving ahead quickly with most any decision.\\n You, too, can deal effectively with the challenge of making solid decisions. Don\\u2019t be indecisive and unstable in all your ways. Rather, walk in the strength, confidence, and boldness that come from decisive action. Tweet This\\n Listener Questions I haaate what I am doing now, but can\\u2019t leap straight into my dream vocation\\n Can I borrow money to launch my dream career?\\n How can I get the Coaching with Excellence experience now that the Sanctuary is off limits?\\n And I\\u2019ve got good news \\u2013\\n \\u201cIndecision is the greatest thief of opportunity.\\u201d \\u2015 Jim Rohn Cliff Feightner\\u2018s Poem Are you just one of the guys Who asks all their peers to advise Get off of that stoop Away from that group Reach up and go for the prize Show Notes: Episode \\u2013 06-30-17 Title: N/A\\n Subtitle: N/A\\n Summary:\\n In this episode, Dan addresses the common question of how to move forward. Unexpected roadblocks are part of the journey and so it begs the question: how does one address the roadblock and move forward? Listen as Dan shares the process of how he and his wife, Joanne, make the tough decisions in life. He also shares addresses questions of listeners and discusses the many options presented to Dan after their cease and desist order for the Sanctuary.\\n Sponsored By: FreshBooks is offering a 30 day, unrestricted free trial to my listeners. To claim it, just go to https://www.freshbooks.com/48days\\n Time Stamped Show Notes:\\n 01:01 \\u2013 Preview of Today\\u2019s Show on \\u201cOh no \\u2013 this happened. How do I move forward?\\u201d\\n My wife, Joanne, and I have used a concise process for all the years of our marriage. When confronted with a decision, we allow a 2-week maximum for arriving at a decision. Whether it is where to move, what kind of car to purchase, making a career or business decision, or how to handle a difficult relationship with a relative, we approach the process as follows:\\n State the problem.\\n Get the advice and opinions of others.\\n List the alternatives.\\n Choose the best alternative.\\n And we avoid the crippling power of indecision. Yes, this process must be bathed in prayer. But a daily walk of integrity and character should provide confidence in moving ahead quickly with most any decision.\\n You, too, can deal effectively with the challenge of making solid decisions. Don\\u2019t be indecisive and unstable in all your ways. Rather, walk in the strength, confidence, and boldness that come from decisive action.\\n I hate what I am doing now, but can\\u2019t leap straight into my dream vocation?\\n Can I borrow money to launch my dream career?\\n How can I get the Coaching with Excellence experience now that the Sanctuary is off limits?\\n And I\\u2019ve got good news \\u2013\\n \\u201cIndecision is the greatest thief of opportunity.\\u201d \\u2015 Jim Rohn\\n 05:46 \\u2013 A poem from Cliff FeightnerAre you just one of the guys Who asks all their peers to advise Get off of that stoop Away from that group Reach up and go for the prize\\n 06:48 \\u2013 A person in the US needs to earn $21.21/hour to afford a 2-BR home which is 3x the Federal minimum wage of $7.25 07:12 \\u2013 What the minimum wage is should NOT be an issue\\n \\n 08:36 \\u2013 An article says your next job interview will likely happen to be a text message\\n 09:26 \\u2013 In Sydney, Nova Scotia, motorcycle bikers escorted a bullied 10-year old boy to school\\n 10:13 \\u2013 There\\u2019s a ride at 6 Flags Theme Park in New York where a 14-year old got outside the sky ride gondola 10:41 \\u2013 The park stopped the ride and people made a human net to catch her\\n \\n 11:25 \\u2013 Dan shares about how Jail Inmates Rush to Save Fallen Officer, Rather than Escaping 11:57 \\u2013 The security officer collapsed unconscious because of the heat\\n 12:17 \\u2013 The inmates rushed to give the officer CPR while another inmate called 911\\n 12:42 \\u2013 The officer was taken to the hospital and is now recovering\\n 12:46 \\u2013 The family members of the fallen officer bought lunch and dessert for the 6 inmates\\n \\n 13:43 \\u2013 Rabbit Hash, Kentucky just elected a pitbull as their town mayor! 14:01 \\u2013 A 3-year old pitbull just won for mayor\\n 14:25 \\u2013 The town\\u2019s tradition came about in the 90s when the residents agreed they don\\u2019t have a need for mayor\\n 15:05 \\u2013 The election funds will go toward to rebuild the town\\u2019s general store that burned down in an electrical fire\\n \\n 15:21 \\u2013 Jim Cockrum is the Amazon online sales guru 15:37 \\u2013 2 weeks ago, Jim\\u2019s house burned down\\n 15:53 \\u2013 A lightning bolt stuck his house\\n 16:14 \\u2013 They are going to rebuild their house that will take 8-12 months\\n 16:28 \\u2013 Jim\\u2019s attitude about that is \\u201cwhat does this make possible?\\u201d\\n 16:48 \\u2013 Because Jim\\u2019s business is online, he has no downturn\\n 17:05 \\u2013 They already rented a house to stay at for the mean time\\n 17:39 \\u2013 Dan will be on the CES Conference with Jim Cockrum \\u2013 for all online businesses\\n \\n 18:53 \\u2013 Last Monday on the 48 Days Eagles, Dan talked about dealing with change 19:02 \\u2013 It was like a live podcast that Dan will do once a month\\n \\n 19:39 \\u2013 In Think and Grow Rich , Napoleon Hill said, \\u201cIndecision is the seedling of fear. Indecision crystallizes into doubt; the two blend and become fear!\\u201d\\n 20:51 \\u2013 Dina says, I hate what I am doing now, but can\\u2019t leap straight into my dream vocation 22:01 \\u2013 If you know that you want to write, determine what it would look like if you do it full-time\\n 22:52 \\u2013 Look for opportunities where you can get paid writing\\n 24:35 \\u2013 Check out Writer\\u2019s Market on Amazon\\n \\n 25:16 \\u2013 Becky\\u2019s message goes, I work with dealerships everyday and there are so many opportunities to do things in the industry. If you want to pass my information privately, I\\u2019d be thrilled to tell them about my company that have openings nationwide 26:21 \\u2013 Dan sold cars in California years ago\\n \\n 27:44 \\u2013 Vicky says, Can I borrow money to launch my dream career? 29:26 \\u2013 We\\u2019re talking about the opportunity cost\\n 29:44 \\u2013 Dan advises to GO NOW!\\n 30:02 \\u2013 Dan shares about a guy who drives a truck who wanted to be a FedEx driver\\n 31:06 \\u2013 Get in the October opening for the barber school\\n 31:57 \\u2013 There\\u2019s a story in Nashville from Jars of Clay, the Christian music group where Stephen Mason was the lead guitarist\\n 32:20 \\u2013 They realized they needed to find their edge\\n 32:29 \\u2013 Stephen Mason was clear and so he opened his shop, The Handsomizer right next to their studio\\n \\n 33:32 \\u2013 Send your success story or question to AskDan or askdan@48Days.com\\n\\n 33:57 \\u2013 Dan received a lot of feedback from last week about the cease and desist\\n 34:51 \\u2013 Carrie and David say, How can I get the Coaching with Excellence experience now that the Sanctuary is off limits? 37:31 \\u2013 48 Days has a Coaching Mastery Program\\n\\n 37:47 \\u2013 Coaching with Excellence used to be a prerequisite for the Coaching Mastery Program\\n 38:06 \\u2013 Dan and his team at 48 Days added more in the Coaching Mastery Program so that you don\\u2019t have to enroll in Coaching with Excellence anymore\\n \\n 39:28 \\u2013 Kai says, If it\\u2019s just an issue of needing to be an accessory use, you can combine the residential and sanctuary lot\\n 40:22 \\u2013 Dan has people lined up to assess what he can do to the Sanctuary\\n 41:14 \\u2013 Dan and Joanne are looking at new options\\n 42:13 \\u2013 Matt suggests hosting events in places like a country club or hotel and to just have dinner gatherings inside Dan\\u2019s home\\n 43:30 \\u2013 Anonymous says, My husband is in sales. Last year he made right about $45K. Does the ratio of sales to income seem reasonable to you? 44:31 \\u2013 If you\\u2019re husband is good in sales, he has a lot of options!\\n \\n 45:47 \\u2013 Dan appreciates your ongoing contributions to the community\\n 46:19 \\u2013 The new 48 Days Eagles site \\u2013 This is the best place for moving your career forward\\n 46:33 \\u2013 Ask your questions at AskDan or send them to askdan@48Days.com\\n\\n 46:43 \\u2013 Dan closes today\\u2019s podcast\\n 3 Key Points: If faced with a difficult situation, be decisive\\u2014analyze your options with careful thought, then act!\\n Always look at the future ahead of you before making any big leap.\\n Be clear on what you want for your life so you can move forward.\\n Resources Mentioned: To ask Dan a question for the podcast \\u2013\\xa0AskDan\\n\\n \\nThe new 48 Days Eagles site \\u2013 This is the best place for moving your career forward\\n Make money and serve as a 48 Days Seminar Presenter\\n\\n Go to com/48Days and get a free audio of Zig Ziglar\\u2019s See You at the Top!\\n \\nFreshBooks is offering a 30 day, unrestricted free trial to my listeners. To claim it, just go to https://www.freshbooks.com/48days\\n\\n CES Conference with Jim Cockrum \\u2013 for all online biz (I\\u2019ll be there!)\\n \\nHow I make money coaching \\u2013 Dan\\u2019s blog\\n Credits: Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives\\n The post Oh no \\u2013 this happened. How do I move forward? appeared first on Official Site Dan Miller.\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'