In this episode, we talk about something that happens every day. Things we do or plan turn out quite differently than we want. When that is in the good direction, we feel lucky or blessed. When it is worse, we call that failure. We then assign bad things to failure. To fail is to be bad or to somehow be wrong.\n\nFailure is none of that. Failure is just feedback that something we tried did not work. Replace the \u201cgood and bad\u201d context with \u201cworked or did not work.\u201d Drop the drama surrounding failure and explore what else is possible. When things are hard, we can choose to say, \u201cI can\u2019t wait to get through this.\u201d Or, we can say \u201cwhat can I take from this.\u201d Adopting the model of deliberate practice, we can grow quickly.