136: Mothers Day Momifesto
We've been in a liminal space for the last 15 months or so, since COVID shutdowns.\xa0 (The word 'liminal' comes from the Latin root limen, meaning threshold).\xa0\xa0 It\u2019s a place where a certain part of our lives has come to an end but the next thing hasn\u2019t yet begun, so we\u2019re in a transitional state.\n\n \n\nWe're finally starting to see the end of this liminal state but before we can fully emerge into the new world, we need to ask ourselves: what do we want that world to be like?\n\n \n\nDo we want to go back to what it was before?\n\n \n\nBecause the world we had before wasn't working for a lot of parents.\xa0 We were constantly rushing our children around from one activity to the next, maybe also trying to balance a career at the same time, attending thirty kids' birthday parties a year and just feeling completely spent, most of the time.\n\n \n\nIf we don't take the time to think about what we want life to be like when we reopen, chances are it'll look pretty much like it used to.\xa0 And that can seem safe!\xa0 It's always safer and easier to go back to what we know, rather than forward to what is unknown and scary.\n\n \n\nWhat would something different even look like?\n\n \n\nMaybe we would have fewer friends, whom we know much better.\n\n \n\nMaybe we would do fewer activities, and spend a bit more time being, rather than always doing.\n\n \n\nMaybe we would actually support families financially instead of having a 'families are the bedrock of our society...but you're on your own to provide for it' approach.\n\n \n\nIn this Mother's Day Momifesto, I explore all of these issues, and encourage you to think about how YOU want to be in this new world.\n\n \n\nAnd if you need help figuring it out, the Parenting Membership is here to help. \xa0We'll support you through the challenges of today (how to prevent tantrums!\xa0 raising healthy eaters!\xa0 navigating screen time!) while keeping an eye on where we want to go.\xa0 Because you need both.\n\n \n\n\n\n \nJump to highlights:\n
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- (01:27) The Mother's Day Momifesto \n \t
- (02:04) COVID shutdown \n \t
- (04:28) School reopenings \n \t
- (07:04) 18% of women in the US have taken antidepressants \n \t
- (09:29) We try to control our bodies in a variety of ways \n \t
- (12:27) Success is defined for men \n \t
- (19:38) Women working communities \n \t
- (20:25) Plenty of parents and children's needs are not met by the school system \n \t
- (22:47) Intersectionality - the idea that different parts of our identities intersect \n \t
- (25:10) Public transit systems are geared around men \n \t
- (26:17) Contribution of scientific research on COVID 19- women scientists have published 19% fewer papers as lead author \n \t
- (29:26) Standard Body Mass Index calculations are based on the weight of White people \n \t
- (31:41) Nonviolent Communication \n \t
- (34:06) How we can begin to make a difference \n \t
- (44:55) Learning how to meet our own needs is a great place to start \n \t
- (46:44) Reopening of your Parenting Membership will close on the midnight of May 12 \n
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