022: How to Talk so Little Kids Will Listen: Author Interview!
Have you read the now-classic book How to Talk so Kids will Listen and Listen so Kids will Talk? Ever wished there was a version that would help you with younger children who perhaps aren’t quite ready for a detailed problem-solving session? Well now there is! Adele Faber is a co-author of the original book; Adele’s daughter Joanna and Joanna’s childhood friend Julie King have teamed up to write the new version of http://amzn.to/2FQSXUZ (How to Talk so LITTLE Kids Will Listen), packed with examples of how real parents have used the information they’ve now been teaching for over 30 years. Join me for a chat with Julie King as we work to understand the power of acknowledging children’s feelings and some practical tools to help engage your younger children to cooperate with you. Update 5/10/17: An eagle-eyed listener noticed that Julie mentioned her 10-year-old son wanting to sit on the front seat of her car, while the https://www.cdc.gov/features/passengersafety/ (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends that children 12 and under should sit in the back seat). Julie was recounting an episode that happened long before there were CDC recommendations on where children should sit in the car, so please don’t take this as an ‘OK’ to put your 12-and-under child in the front seat. Thanks! Reference Faber, J. & King, J. (2017). http://amzn.to/2FQSXUZ (How to talk so little kids will listen). New York: Scribner. (Affiliate link) Read Full Transcript Transcript Jen: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/P74sAOkk8IMHGB3zkWWtK3r7ZBS1lVcqlrebyqMP2e51q2Cz69quzYc_-0r0j9IzqEajIeww1_w7Vl6JXKkObhjxs1M?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplink&ts=21.51 ([00:21]) Welcome to the Your Parenting Mojo podcast. I’d like to welcome my guest today, Julie King, who is one half of the writing duo behind the new book, How to Talk so Little Kids Will Listen, and if that title sounds familiar, it’s because it’s part of what seems to have become a family of books around the classic How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Julie has been educating and supporting parents and professionals since 1995 and in addition to her work with individual parents and couples, she also leads How to Talk workshops and gives parent education presentations to schools, nonprofits, and parent groups. Julie received her AB from Princeton University and a JD from Yale Law School. She lives in the San Francisco Bay area and is the mother of three. Welcome Julie. Julie: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/P74sAOkk8IMHGB3zkWWtK3r7ZBS1lVcqlrebyqMP2e51q2Cz69quzYc_-0r0j9IzqEajIeww1_w7Vl6JXKkObhjxs1M?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplink&ts=73.72 ([01:13]) Thank you. Jen: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/P74sAOkk8IMHGB3zkWWtK3r7ZBS1lVcqlrebyqMP2e51q2Cz69quzYc_-0r0j9IzqEajIeww1_w7Vl6JXKkObhjxs1M?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplink&ts=74.26 ([01:14]) It actually does feel a little odd to welcome you when we’re in your own home. Julie was kind enough to invite me to her home today to have this conversation. So thanks so much for taking the time. Julie: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/P74sAOkk8IMHGB3zkWWtK3r7ZBS1lVcqlrebyqMP2e51q2Cz69quzYc_-0r0j9IzqEajIeww1_w7Vl6JXKkObhjxs1M?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplink&ts=83.68 ([01:23]) Oh my pleasure. Jen: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/P74sAOkk8IMHGB3zkWWtK3r7ZBS1lVcqlrebyqMP2e51q2Cz69quzYc_-0r0j9IzqEajIeww1_w7Vl6JXKkObhjxs1M?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplink&ts=84.86 ([01:24]) So I wonder if you can tell me a little bit about the genesis of this book because it kind of runs in the family a bit, right? Julie:...