Episode 58 - Stephen Snyder, MD\n\nA sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist \u2014 Dr. Snyder has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. Over 30+ years, he\u2019s helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction in their relationships.\n\nI heard him on a podcast \u201csexology\u201d and needed to read his book and get him on my podcast. I loved the male perspective, and he offered ways for women to understand the male model of sex in a long-term relationship.\n\n- How did you go from MD to sex therapist?\n\n- Women are the \u201cchief sexual officer\u201d in the relationship\n\n- How women and men are different\n\n- The \u201ctwo step\u201d plan for good sex\n\n- In his book, he writes, \u201cyour wife is not a lawn mower\u201d \u2013 we discuss\n\n- He writes \u2013 "Good sex definitely make you dumber. And great sex can make you downright stupid."\n\n- Sex knots and how to untie them\n\n- Why men \u201cgo missing\u201d in bed\n\n- Tips for talking to your male partner about better sex\n\n- Talk about shame and sex!\n\n- FIOS \u2013 for it\u2019s own sake \u2013 enjoy arousal for it\u2019s own sake. He discusses what \u201csimmering\u201d is and why we should enjoy it more.\n\n- Why humans are not steam engines\n\n- \u201cEveryone over 35 should have a dimmer switch in the bedroom\u201d\n\n- ANTs \u2013 automatic negative thoughts \u2013 so many women have these and body image issues \u2013 help please!\n\n- Desire \u2013 it is becoming an object of FDA approved medications \u2013 yet you talk so differently about it, such that it is not needed at all. Please educate us!\n\nhttps://www.sexualityresource.com/\n\nAn amazing blog post about female sexual desire: https://www.sexualityresource.com/blog/womens-sexual-desire-and-why-men-often-dont-recognize-it\n\nHis book is amazing! Find it at:\n\nhttps://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B073Z8CBQ4&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_PKDWP0312DYJZ99H8YZ4&tag=kellycasperso-20\n\n\n--- \n\nSend in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices