Sex for Women and Men - a YANB lecture
Join me on a lecture I gave to some surgeons (some of my favorite people BTW).\n\nI discuss - sexual normative roles and how that affects our personal sex lives.\n\nWe were taught \u201csex negative\u201d education \u2013 don\u2019t get pregnancy or infections, save it for marriage\n\nWhat happens when the novelty of sex wears off\n\nIs desire a circumstance, a feeling, a result? Where do we put it in a coaching model.\n\nDesire and sex for women.\n\nWhat do I mean by crappy sex?\n\nSex, surgery and mindfulness\n\nNormalizing responsive desire\n\nSleep and a happy sex life/drive\n\nWhat is responsive desire?\n\nHow alcohol works with the brain to hurt/help our sex drive\n\nWhy older people have great sex\n\nWhy our thoughts about our spouse helps or hurts our sex life \u2013 and our thoughts are completely under our control.\n\nDo you desire what you already have?\n\nWhy textbooks dedicate way more space to male sexual organs than female.\n\nAnatomy lesson\n\nWhy PIV sex doesn\u2019t work for female orgasms\n\nAre you \u201cshould-ing\u201d all over your sex life?\n\nWe finish this episode with some coaching on our sex life \u2013 we use the \u201cmodel\u201d from The Life Coach School.\n\nIf you want a good sex life you can\u2019t be passive about it.\n\nWhat does a sexually satisfied woman do well?\n\n\n--- \n\nSend in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices