For the Men! Sex Surrogacy and Coaching
Today we welcome Erika Davian \u2013 we are both certified at the Life coach school and someone connected us!\xa0\n\nI had been saying that someone ought to coach the men! And then she showed up in my life!\n\nToday we are learning about surrogate partner therapy with her.\n\nWe need to pay attention to the men too! And we are in this episode! She tells us how she got into this niche.\n\nShe helps millennial men cultivate the confidence to create the life they want in and out of the bedroom. She helps them show up as themselves.\n\nA myth is that \u201cstraight men have it so easy\u201d when in fact they have a lot of pressure to \u201cbe\u201d a certain way as much if not more than other people.\n\nShe \xa0quickly saw that some clients-- particularly younger clients-- thought their sexual dysfunction was purely physiological, when really, the psychological component was playing as big or an even bigger role.\n\nWhat is a common limiting belief or scenarios that men have about sexuality?\n\n\u201cAnxiety and erections are not good bedfellows\u201d\n\n\u201cthere is one way to please a woman\u201d is very pervasive.\n\n\u201cthings are problems because we think they are problems\u201d\n\nShe says - I\u2019ve seen men encounter sexual dysfunction and shame, simply because their mind was sabotaging their body\u2019s ability to perform.\n\nTips for men to start talking to their partner about sex.\n\nTips for premature ejaculation.\n\nYou help men manage their mind \u2013 what are some common themes that you see?\n\nYou can find her at www.sessionswitherika.com\n\nand\n\nerikadavian.com\n\n\n--- \n\nSend in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices