204. Sexual Intelligence: What we really want from sex and how to get it

Published: March 26, 2023, noon

Joining me for the second time on the podcast is world renowned sex therapist, Dr. Marty Klein \u2013 Author and sex therapist to Silicon Valley.\n\nIf you want our first episode together check out Episode 169 \u2013 where we discuss his book \u201cHis porn her pain\u201d\n\n\n\nToday we are discussing his amazing book: \u201cSexual Intelligence: What we really\nwant from sex and how to get it\u201d. This book is 10 years old and still completely relevant. And\nhe is still being interviewed about it!\n\n\xa0\n\nWhat is sexual intelligence and why did it need to be\nwritten about?\n\n\xa0\n\n\u201cFor a lot of people, sex is an opportunity to fail\u201d \u2013 Dr.\nMarty Klein\n\n\xa0\n\nHow do you navigate when one partner wants something and the\nother doesn\u2019t \u2013 oral during a period, PIV sex, kink?\n\n\xa0\n\nWhat is your opinion about the \u201clow desire\u201d epidemic and the\nmeds for low desire. \n\n\xa0\n\n\u201cMost people leave sex for when they are too tired to do\nanything else\u201d \u2013 Dr. Marty Klein\n\n\xa0\n\n\u201cIn a world that is filled with ice cream and Netflix\u2026.why\nwould anyone want sex?\u201d \u2013 Dr. Marty Klein\n\n\xa0\n\nYou say in the book PIV has symbolic meaning for hetero\npeople \u2013 can you talk about why this limits us?\n\n\xa0\n\nWhat to do when sex is boring?\n\n\xa0\n\nWhat to do with a partner who won\u2019t communicate about sex?\nStonewalling?\n\n\xa0\n\n26:13 Why Dr. Klein doesn\u2019t like the term erectile dysfunction.\n\n\n\xa0\n\nI\u2019m not attracted to my partner any more \u2013 they gained\nweight or are getting older \u2013 any help?\n\n\xa0\n\nTips for desire discrepancy. Communication and more touch. \n\n\xa0\n\nhttps://www.martyklein.com/\n\nDr. Klein\u2019s book: His Porn, Her Pain\xa0 https://amzn.to/3IYvIsF\n\nDr. Klein\u2019s book: Sexual Intelligence https://amzn.to/3WLfYi0\n\n\xa0\n\nDid you get the You Are Not Broken Book Yet? https://amzn.to/3p18DfK\n\n\xa0\n\nJoin my membership to get these episodes ASAP when they are\ncreated and without advertisement and even listen live to the interviews and\nepisodes. \n\nwww.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership\n\nAnd get on the wait list for the upcoming "adult sex education master class"\n\n\n--- \n\nSend in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices