This week our listener Raya asks, "How do I deal with a 4-year-old who is afraid to go to any doctor's office?"\nDoctors' offices are scary! There are shots, there's vulnerability, and there's an adult in charge who might be really intimidating to a little one.\nNo kid is ever going to dance off to the pediatrician. The goal is to make your child's experience as manageable as possible\u2013 by communicating openly about why the visit is necessary, discussing what is going to happen during the visit, and placing a little emphasis on the reward (okay, you might call it a bribe) that your little one can look forward to for good behavior.\nMargaret quotes this article in this episode :"Fear of Doctors" (whattoexpect.com)\n\nSend us your parenting questions- we might answer yours next!\nEmail us: questions@whatfreshhellpodcast.com.\n\n* Leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!\n* Join us on Facebook: https://facebook.com/whatfreshhellcast\n* Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatfreshhellcast\n* YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatFreshHellPodcast\n* Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/whatfreshhellcast\n* Twitter: https://twitter.com/WFHpodcast\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices