Ask Amy: What's It Like To Have a Kid Away At College?

Published: Jan. 17, 2022, 10 a.m.

If you've got a high schooler who's starting the college process\u2013 and the part you're most dreading as a parent is drop-off day\u2013 you will probably identify with this Question of the Week:\nHey ladies! A longtime listener here. How about an episode about Amy\u2019s experience with her oldest off at college? I\u2019m a mom who\u2019s sending her first one away to school next year and my heart is already slowly breaking. Help!\nGood news: like a milestone birthday, the enormity of a kid leaving for college is way larger on the road ahead of you than it is in your rear-view mirror. It does cause great changes in your relationship with your child when they're not with you at the dinner table every night. The entire system really does transform when one family member is removed. But not all of the changes your family dynamic will undergo are bad. And if your teenager is giving you one-word answers while she's still at home, you may be surprised at how much she has to tell you once she's having these new experiences. In fact, these very show notes were interrupted for a lazy Sunday FaceTime with just such a first-year college student.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices