Turn your mess into your message.\nDon\u2019t hide your past.\nYour past makes you stand out!\n\nFor example how many people these days are health coaches online, and how many stories you have seen on gut health and how to heal your gut?\nOmg sooooooo many stories like that!!\n\nNow stand out and share the story that you almost pooped in your pants cause your gut health was off and you had to race to a bathroom while standing in line somewhere.\nNow that story will make you human!\nAnd this will allow others to open up about their poop story\u2026.cause you know we all have some!\n\nEmbrace the mess, bless this mess (I always say)\n\nRelatability is key when it comes to connecting.\n\nThere is always going to be someone else who does exactly the same thing as you.\nSo, if you stick purely to the topic and say nothing about yourself, you are just going to be another voice, lost in the crowd.\n\nBut I can promise you, there is only one you!\nNobody else has your story, your voice, and your point of view.\n\nSo, if you want to stand out in the field of competitors, and be the expert that people want to go to, tell the stories, that only you can tell.\n\nCan you think of your own relatable maybe even messy story?\nWanna hear one of mine, real quick?!\n\nSo today, while my hubby and I were having lunch with another couple, we were chatting about our furry baby Dobby for a bit, who had had another seizure a few days ago, and the last one was with them on the hiking trail.\n\nSo I said, I\u2019m already shopping for our next furry baby, then my hubby said, slow your roll a bit hunny, we still have Dobby, and he\u2019s not going anywhere just yet, and he\u2019s not the kinda dog who likes to share the attention.\n\nI said, oh I know and I totally agree, but knowing myself, I make the pain less hard, if I have the next project lined up.\nI know it from when my late hubby passed, I very quickly got back into the dating game and on all the dating websites, so the pain was less\n\n\nMaybe this is why God never made me a mother\n\nSometimes I scream how ignorant people are when they advertise their stuff they don't show the whole picture\n\n\n\nIt is so important to make everyone feel heard seen, appreciated and acknowledged