Tricking people is for amateurs! Find a solution \n\nAs you get better it gets easier\n\nIf you want to be successful in life you gotta help others. You are not selling services and/or products, you are selling certainty. Believe in yourself. Confidence is sexy. As a woman\u2026\n\nWe have to always be extraordinary.\nBut somehow we are always doing it wrong.\nYou have to be thin, but not too thin.\nYou want to be thin, you have to say.\nYou want to be healthy.\nBut also you HAVE to be thin.\nYou have to have money.\nBut you can\u2019t ASK for money.\nBecause that\u2019s crass.\nYou HAVE to be a BOSS.\nYou HAVE to lead.\nBut you can\u2019t squash other people\u2019s ideas.\nYou\u2019re supposed to love.\nBut don\u2019t talk about your kids, all the damn time.\nYou have to be a career woman.\nBut also always be looking out, for other people.\nYou have to answer for men\u2019s, bad behavior, which is insane!\nBut if you point that out, you are accused of complaining.\nYou are supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them.\nBecause you are supposed to be a part of the sisterhood.\nBut always stand out.\nAnd always be grateful.\nYou have to never get old.\nNever be rude.\nNever show off.\nNever be selfish.\nNever fall down.\nNever show fear.\nNever get out of line.\n\nIt\u2019s too hard! It\u2019s too contradictory!\n\nAnd nobody gives you a medal.\nOr says thank you!\n\nAnd it turns out in fact.\nThat not only are you doing everything wrong, but also, everything is your fault!\n\nI\u2019m just so tired of watching myself, and every other woman, be so hard on herself, so that people will like us.