409: Tal Ben-Shahar on the Science of Being Happier

Published: May 18, 2021, 4:43 p.m.

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Watch the full video interview on YouTube here: http://bit.ly/talbenshahar409

Tal Ben-Shahar (IG: @happiness.studies.academy) obtained his PhD in Organizational Behavior from Harvard and is a bestselling author and lecturer.

He taught two of the largest classes in Harvard University\\u2019s history,\\xa0Positive Psychology\\xa0and\\xa0The Psychology of Leadership.\\xa0

Today,\\xa0Tal consults and lectures\\xa0around the world and is the co-founder and chief learning officer of\\xa0Happiness Studies Academy.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • The pivotal moment in Tal\\u2019s happiness journey after he won a squash championship
  • Leaving computer science behind to study philosophy & psychology
  • Learning that success won\\u2019t lead to happiness
  • What is me-search?
  • Tal\\u2019s attempt to become happier and increase self-esteem & self-confidence
  • The SPIRE elements of happiness
  • When we reject painful emotions they intensify
  • Even the greatest love stories face difficulties, challenges, and hardships
  • It\\u2019s ok to struggle, it\\u2019s part of evolving
  • Gridlocks are the road to a better relationship
  • Boundaries are important in raising children
  • Open communication is an important part of any relationship
  • More important than validation is knowing and being known
  • Taking small steps to intimacy
  • People share too much, we need to be more modest
  • Imparting values and interests on your family
  • Understanding your intrinsic passion vs. your extrinsic motivation
  • When you decide to take your own path\\u2026 commit to it 100%
  • Pursuing your passion is the essence of happiness
  • Why Tal created the field of happiness studies
  • Learn to embrace and accept your anxiety not reject it
  • Have more of an impact on our happiness levels
  • Create daily rituals to express gratitude
  • Knowing that your life is going to end / facing death
  • Reading a book on happiness won\\u2019t make you happier\\u2026 you need to practice

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