222. Why Finding a Partner that Leads, Plans, + is Ambitious Has Been Difficult for You

Published: Oct. 12, 2023, 4 a.m.

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If you believe it\\u2019s IMPOSSIBLE to attract the type of man that has ambition, makes plans, and takes charge in your relationship\\u2026I may have an idea why that is.

And you\\u2019re probably not going to like hearing it.

Once upon a time, I was in the same shoes as you: fed up with attracting men who wouldn\\u2019t so much as initiate a phone call, sick of having to do ALL the work in every relationship, and wondering where all the ambitious men were.

But you know what else I believed?

That men were dumb as rocks.

No, really. I genuinely, wholeheartedly believed that men were inferior to me, that they couldn\\u2019t do anything right, and they needed my guidance in everything\\u2026

But if that was true, well\\u2026why on earth would I want to have one of them leading me?

It doesn\\u2019t matter what you consciously say you want. If your unconscious mind believes men are inferior, the unconscious will win over the conscious every time. Let\\u2019s talk about why this superiority is actually sabotaging our dating lives.

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