220. Dating Requires Your Effort (Contrary to Popular Belief)

Published: Sept. 28, 2023, 4 a.m.

If you\u2019re walking around telling yourself \u201cI DESERVE a relationship\u2026\u201d

Sit down for a second. Let\u2019s talk.

I say this because I love you: you do not \u201cdeserve\u201d a relationship.\xa0

You don\u2019t deserve anything from another individual just because you want it.\xa0

Imagine if you walked into a job interview. You did no prep. You did no research. You wore your sweats. And when they start asking you questions, you just go, \u201cWhat do you mean? Why are you asking me this? I deserve this job. Just give it to me.\u201d

They would look at you like you were FUCKING DELUSIONAL\u2026because you\u2019d have to be in order to act that way.

We all know we can\u2019t act like that in most areas of our lives. But when it comes to dating\u2026all that goes flying out the window, and suddenly we\u2019re deep in our entitled princess energy, believing we deserve something we didn\u2019t put in the work for.

If dating feels like it\u2019s too hard, it\u2019s probably because you\u2019re approaching it with a heavy vibe of entitlement and need. But I promise you this: if you just shift this perspective, your dating life will be completely transformed.

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