How often have you immediately blurted out \u201cYou too!\u201d when somebody compliments you?
\u201cYou have such pretty hair!\u201d \u201cYou too!\u201d
\u201cYou\u2019re so smart!\u201d \u201cYou too!\u201d
\u201cYou\u2019re so beautiful.\u201d \u201cYou too!\u201d
It\u2019s like we can\u2019t stand to just sit and HOLD attention when it\u2019s given to us\u2026we have to throw it back as fast as we can. Why?
Because we\u2019ve trained ourselves to be uncomfortable holding it.
Because we don\u2019t think of ourselves as \u201cattention-seekers.\u201d
Here\u2019s the thing: attention-seeking is not the same as receiving attention. And until we learn that lesson, we\u2019re never going to be comfortable holding attention from others\u2026and we\u2019re never going to be able to have the supportive relationship we dream about where we are known, loved, and seen for exactly who we are.
Let\u2019s talk about VISIBILITY, VULNERABILITY, ATTENTION, and BEING SEEN\u2026without feeling the need to get everyone\u2019s eyes off of us as fast as possible.
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