194. "Are My Standards TOO High?" - A Much-Needed Conversation on Standards

Published: March 30, 2023, 4 a.m.

Last week, we had a chat about what it looks like when your standards are actually conditions, and you\u2019re too wishy-washy about standing firm in the standards you\u2019ve set\u2026

This week, I want to talk about what happens when you\u2019re TOO strict with your standard-setting, and it actually ends up narrowing your dating pool unnecessarily.

I\u2019ve heard a lot of people asking whether their standards are \u201ctoo high,\u201d and honestly? I don\u2019t believe this is even a thing. Standards aren\u2019t high or low; they just are. They\u2019re something that you\u2019ve decided to set and stand behind\u2026

But sometimes, we set them in places that aren\u2019t actually aligned with what we\u2019re truly seeking in a relationship.

Let\u2019s talk about what happens when you set standards from a place of entitlement or outside pressure rather than what will ACTUALLY make you feel safe and secure in a relationship. Because I\u2019m betting that your ego has started an unconscious game of peek-a-boo within your standards\u2026and it\u2019s actually starting to sabotage your dating life.

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