Happiness Break: A Meditation for When Others are Suffering, with Anushka Fernandopulle

Published: Feb. 9, 2023, 11 a.m.

Seeing others suffering is painful. Learn to practice both compassion and self-soothing in this guided meditation led by Anushka Fernandopulle.

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Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/mwxee3uw

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How to Do This Practice:

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  1. Find somewhere peaceful, sit down and get comfortable. Once you\u2019re ready, gently close your eyes.

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  3. Start taking deep breaths and relax your body. Part by part, release tension in different areas of your body.

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  5. Think of someone or a group of people you know or have heard of who may be having a hard time. Bring to mind an image of them.

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  7. Connect with whatever it is they are struggling with. Mentally, make some wishes of compassion for them. For example, \u201cMay you be free from pain.\u201d Or, \u201cI am here with you.\u201d

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  9. You can also use this practice to focus on your own pain. To do this, call to mind your struggles and give yourself the same compassion you gave others.

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Today\u2019s Happiness Break host:

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Anushka Fernandopulle is a meditation teacher who trained in Buddhist meditation for over 30 years. After studying Buddhism at Harvard, she spent four years in full-time meditation training in the U.S., India, and Sri Lanka

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Check out Anushka\u2019s upcoming meditation retreats https://www.anushkaf.org

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Follow Anushka on Instagram https://tinyurl.com/ytn3vvhz

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Follow Anushka on Twitter https://tinyurl.com/485vj8xn

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Check out Anushka\u2019s Dharma Talks https://tinyurl.com/ydacvamn

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Find another version of the Compassion Meditation practice at our Greater Good in Action website:

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https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/compassion_meditation

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More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:

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What is compassion? https://tinyurl.com/2s3ztcpt

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Take Our Self-Compassion Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yysrf663

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Try Dr. Neff\u2019s Fierce Self-Compassion Break: https://tinyurl.com/yk9yzh9u

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How to Bring Self-Compassion to Work with You: https://tinyurl.com/45zkrkam

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The Five Myths of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/2p88vass

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Read Dr. Neff\u2019s interview about Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/286njtje

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How Self-Compassion Can Help You Through a Breakup: https://tinyurl.com/222scejz

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Can Self-Compassion Overcome Procrastination? https://tinyurl.com/mrfmvyj

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We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of compassion meditation. Email us at happinesspod@berkeley.edu or use the hashtag #happinesspod.

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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout \u2014 we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more \u2014 what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.