Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life?\n\nIs it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship?\n\nAnd would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change?\n\nToday my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut. \n\nIn this interview:\nLiving a split life\n\u201cStop being a spoiled brat.\u201d\nFocusing on problems vs solutions\nFeeling guilty for wanting more out of life\n\nPlus:\nHave you outgrown your life?\nThe Drama Triangle - Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer\nShifting from bitching to focusing on what you want\nAre you defensive or curious?\nThe fear of being broke and alone\n\nAnd:\n\u201cDo you feel like you\u2019re settling?\u201d\nThe myth: \u201cI have to blow up my life in order to make a change.\u201d\nAre you being lulled to sleep?\nWaiting for the perfect, safe plan\nThe phone call that changed Tripp\u2019s life\n\nInterviews and videos discussed:\nDavid Emerald interview\nDrama Triangle video\n\nYou don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients \u2014 including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. \nhttps://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//