How to Stop Bitching and Create What You Want Shana James, MA

Published: May 26, 2021, 2:51 a.m.

Does your partner give you a hard time because you want more sex?\n\nDo you blame your work or family for getting in the way of what has you feel alive?\n\nAnd what do power and pleasure have to do with us becoming grumpy old men?\n\nShana James has coached many guys over the years through the intersection between owning our power and having the experiences we most want. She\u2019s got a new book called Power and Pleasure: A Man\u2019s Guide to Becoming a More Confident and Satisfied Lover and Leader. Today we talk about how to shift our mindset from frustration into greater aliveness and fun.\n\nIn this interview:\nWhat is pleasure?\nIs power about dominance?\nBeing responsible vs having fun\n\u201cWhat do I actually enjoy?\u201d\nWhy all of us have a bit of \u201cnice guy syndrome\u201d\nSeeing frustration as information\n\nPlus:\nFeeling guilty about wanting more pleasure\nWhat\u2019s your role in your level of unhappiness?\nWaiting for someone to tell you what to do\nAre you a bad husband or father if you want time for yourself?\nAre you afraid to bring what you want to your partner for fear it\u2019ll cause a problem?\n\nhttps://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/shana-james-power-pleasure\n\n\nYou don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients \u2014 including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.\nhttps://thenewmanpodcast.com\n\nMost men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.\n\nThis Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It\u2019s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.\n\nThis Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.\n\nhttp://dangerousbookstore.com