The Narcissism Doctor: "Are Narcissists Better In Bed?". 1 In 6 People Are Narcissists! Can A Narcissist Change? - Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Published: Feb. 29, 2024, 6 a.m.

1 in 6 people are narcissists, so what is a narcissist and how can you spot one?\nDr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as \u2018Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist\u2019, and \u2018"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility\u2019.\nIn this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.\n\n(00:00) Intro\n(02:08) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism\n(03:10) The Cost Of Narcissism\n(06:07) How To Spot A Narcissist\n(12:27) How To Differentiate An Asshole From A Narcissist\n(15:19) Can You Cure Narcissism?\n(16:39) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic\n(18:24) The Types Of Narcissism\n(25:07) How Many People Are Narcissists?\n(27:21) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists\n(32:09) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment\n(36:06) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum\n(37:08) Are Narcissists More Successful\n(40:12) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare\n(43:04) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?\n(47:03) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist\n(50:19) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?\n(53:41) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist\n(55:32) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship\n(59:28) Pathological Manipulation\n(01:00:56) What's Projection?\n(01:04:20) Can They Take Feedback\n(01:05:55) Gaslighting, What Is It?\n(01:10:49) How To Deal With Being Gaslit\n(01:13:10) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour\n(01:15:17) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist\n(01:17:31) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person\n(01:21:32) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist\n(01:23:08) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist\n(01:24:44) Why Don't They Like Authentic People\n(01:25:51) Famous Narcissists\n(01:31:55) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse\n(01:34:04) Hardest Day Of Your Life\n\nYou can order Dr Ramani\u2019s most recent book, \u2018It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People\u2019, here: https://amzn.to/42YI79K\n\nFollow Dr Ramani\nTwitter - https://bit.ly/3wF91ra\nInstagram - https://bit.ly/48A634K\n\nWatch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb\n\nFollow me:\nhttps://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo\n\nSponsors: \nEightsleep: https://www.eightsleep.com/uk/steven/\nUber: https://p.uber.com/creditsterms\nLinkedin Ads: https://www.linkedin.com/doac24\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices