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b"If over half of marriages end in divorce, what are the skills to make sure your relationship stays in the successful 50%?\\n Drs.\\xa0John and Julie Gottman are world leading relationship researchers that\\xa0have been studying couples for over 40 years, publishing over 200 academic journal articles and 46 books. They are the co-founders of The Gottman Institute and Love Lab.\\nIn this conversation the Gottman\\u2019s and Steven discuss topics such as, the 3 skills you need for a healthy relationship, the steps to repair a relationship after an argument, why kissing can extend your life, and how cuddling leads to a better sex life.\\n\\n(00:00) Intro\\n(02:07) What mission are you on & Why study love?\\n(06:30) Studying traits of successful couples\\n(08:27) Link between relationships & our health\\n(12:15) What is the love lab?\\n(15:05) The misconceptions about relationships\\n(17:16) How to connect with your partner\\n(27:08) What is the 'attuned' framework?\\n(32:10) Why does typical couples therapy often fail?\\n(34:41) The 7 Principles of a successful marriage\\n(38:09) Do partners' dreams need to be aligned?\\n(40:09) 69% of our problems are not solvable\\n(48:05) What to do when your partner wants to change you\\n(50:43) The four horsemen\\n(57:45) What is flooding?\\n(1:02:55) What's a 'caretaker' in a relationship\\n(1:05:55) Conflict misunderstandings\\n(1:07:58) How to become a master at conflict resolution\\n(1:11:05) How to repair/fix relationship issues\\n(1:18:46) What have you learnt about the role of kissing\\n(1:21:49) The role of sex in a relationship\\n(1:29:22) Our society is becoming more sexless\\n(1:31:42) Men struggling to figure out where they fit into society\\n(1:37:14) What do women really want in a man?\\n(1:39:23) Talking about sex makes your sex life better\\n(1:43:54) Betrayal in a relationship\\n(1:44:38) The traits that show a failing relationship\\n(1:48:44) Asking your partner their dreams\\n(1:50:52) Advice to give a relationship its best shot\\n(1:52:45) The most interesting conclusions from the love lab\\n(1:55:03) What does Julie mean to you, John\\n(1:56:00) What does John mean to you, Julie\\n(1:58:02) Why did you write this book\\n(1:59:18) The Last Guest's question\\n\\nYou can purchase the Gottman\\u2019s new book, \\u2018Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection\\u2019, here: https://amzn.to/3TDm5Fx\\n\\nFollow the Gottman\\u2019s:\\nTwitter - https://bit.ly/3xcZA2z\\nInstagram - https://bit.ly/4cC2UVl\\nYouTube - https://bit.ly/4awssRS\\n\\nWatch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb\\n\\nMy new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook\\n\\nFollow me:\\nhttps://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo\\n\\nSponsors: \\nZOE: http://joinzoe.com with an exclusive code CEO2024 for 10% off\\nLinkedin Ads: https://www.linkedin.com/doac24\\n\\nShop the Conversation Cards: https://thediary.com/products/the-cards\\xa0\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices"