b'In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of them, and how they can work to ensure they don\\u2019t show up in their relationships, or how to work on them if they do.\\n\\n \\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices'