Frands Forever with Alisha Ramos
HI FRANDS. We\u2019re all BFFs now, right?\u2026Right? In this episode, we talk about how we make new friends as busy adults, how we sustain relationships beyond grabbing lunch or drinks, and how we build the kinds of communities that give us LIFE. We\u2019re also joined by Girls\u2019 Night In founder Alisha Ramos, who tells us how she built a company around a simple concept: connecting and celebrating women who\u2019d rather stay in.\n\n> Book clubs are just magical, first of all, because books are amazing. But, second of all, it creates a really interesting common ground for everyone\u2026 You\u2019re all showing up because you read the same thing, and you are starting off with that common thing and you end up picking up little pieces of the other person\u2019s life as she\u2019s describing how she read the book and interpreted it, and then it kind of like takes the pressure off.\n> \n> \u2014Alisha Ramos, founder of [Girls\u2019 Night In](http://girlsnightinclub.com/)\n\nHere\u2019s what we covered (and as always, you can find the full transcript below).\n\n## Show notes\n\nDid you know that Sara and Katel first bonded over crab fries? That a full 50 percent of the city of Philadelphia knows each other through Jenn? Well, now you will. We also talk about:\n\n- How great friends are also generous with their friends\n- Why you have to get over the fear of rejection when trying to keep adult friendships alive\n- Why loneliness is bad for your health\n\nThen, we catch up with Alisha Ramos, who tells us how she [quit her job last year](https://medium.com/@girlsnightin/why-i-quit-my-job-to-build-girls-night-in-456954f44a09) to start Girls\u2019 Night in, a newsletter for ladies who\u2019d rather skip the party, _thanks_. Now GNI boasts more than 30,000 members.\n\nWe bond over:\n\n- The magic of book clubs\u2014especially when your new book BFFs also invite you to a potluck\n- Celeste Ng\u2019s excellent second novel, Little Fires Everywhere\n- Relaxing, relaxing, and more relaxing\u2014Alisha recommends watching The Crown and re-watching I, Tonya (and if you hate Tonya Harding, [read this first](https://slate.com/arts/2018/01/i-tonya-toxic-masculinity-and-the-messiness-of-victimhood.html)).\n\nAlso in this episode:\n\n- Thanks to a reader recommendation, Katel\u2019s back in the fiction game with [Manhattan Beach by Jennifer Egan](https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/11/jennifer-egan-manhattan-beach/540612/).\n- Did you know that Tinder for moms is a thing? (It\u2019s called [Peanut](https://www.peanut-app.io/).)\n- It\u2019s reboot time in Hollywood! Still! Apparently! First up: get your blazers pressed: [Murphy Brown is back](https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2018/01/murphy-brown-reboot-cbs), baby! Let\u2019s hope Dan Quayle doesn\u2019t show up to shame her again. An [Overboard reboot](http://deadline.com/2017/12/overboard-trailer-anna-faris-eugenio-derbez-remake-goldie-hawn-kurt-russell-1202231480/) is also coming, which we\u2019re not feeling great about, given that the plot centers around tricking a woman with amnesia into being your wife\u2014as a comedy!\n- What the world really needs is some of that patented