How to Turn Questions into Storytelling Opportunities: The Handshake Technique
\u201cKymberlee, how are you always able to take questions and turn them into storytelling opportunities?\u201d
That\u2019s the question my client Claire asks me as we\u2019re getting her ready for a big keynote presentation. As I\u2019m quickly thinking about how to answer her, I realize that I mostly do it unconsciously. Yet I know that\u2019s not really a helpful answer, so I replay in my mind the times I\u2019ve recently turned a question into a story.
Then it hits me: I\u2019ve been building bridges from questions asked to times in my life that are in some way related to the questions\u2026 during handshake moments.\xa0
So I explain my thought process to Claire who, during our next coaching sessions, reports that she\u2019s been binging on my technique to great fun and success. She feels like every time she turns a question into a storytelling opportunity, her connection with that other person goes deeper faster.
In this installment of the \u201cStorytelling 7 Series\u201d on the Storytelling School Podcast, you\u2019ll learn about how you can turn questions into storytelling opportunities, too. I\u2019ll also answer questions like:
How can you understand the concept of a handshake as it relates to questions and storytelling? What practical tips can help you improve your storytelling skills with the Handshake Technique? And how do you make your story responses more engaging and relatable using this technique?
What you will learn in this episode:
- How to connect questions to stories using the Handshake Technique
- How to hone your storytelling skills by classifying and building story arsenals
- How to make storytelling through this technique more natural and effective
A little about me:
Hi there. I\u2019m Kymberlee.
As a Speaking Strategist and founder of Storytelling School, I\u2019ve had the pleasure of working with over 500 speakers, business leaders, and entrepreneurs worldwide for over a decade. No matter if those folks were getting ready to take the TED or TEDx stage or preparing for a high-stakes presentation with everything on the line, my specialty is High Stakes Short Form Communication. I\u2019ve seen what works when influencing change and what doesn\u2019t. It turns out storytelling is one of the most powerful tools you can have in your arsenal. That\u2019s why I\u2019m building a movement of master storytellers to affect change in the world on a global scale to help people tell real stories that have influence and impact. With effective storytelling, you change people\u2019s lives.
Since competition for potential client attention is fierce, a story can make the difference between being memorable or irrelevant. You\u2019ll find me sharing my matcha tea mishap to discuss perfectionism, my quest for Bruce Lee and Hello Kitty art to explore kindness or the six months of live blade training I underwent to illustrate presence. I spend my days showing the power of using stories to help cement ideas and bring lessons to life and teach my clients to do the same.
If you think business owners can\u2019t tell stories or don\u2019t have stories to share with their clients, staff, donors, followers, or investors, I invite you to reconsider your perspective. There\u2019s no better place than in business to tell your stories so audiences, no matter how big or small, can understand how you think and what you value.
Now it\u2019s your turn... If you\u2019re ready to become a master storyteller and effect change in our world, you\u2019ve come to the right place.
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