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\nAbout the\xa0book
\nIf so, The Manager\u2019s Dilemma\u200a\u2014\u200aHow to Empower Your Team\u2019s Problem-Solving is the book for you. This book starts by exploring the manager\u2019s dilemma\u200a\u2014\u200abe good at problem-solving or focus on developing other people\u2019s problem-solving skills? You will explore how escalation habits contribute to the overload. You will then consider the problem-solving process, discover how to identify at which step a team member might be getting stuck and how to develop and coach them towards empowering their own problem-solving skills.
\nSource: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B09FZV3Q8L
\nAbout the\xa0author
\nIrial O\u2019Farrell is endlessly curious by what drives performance in business. She has 10+ years direct management experience, and 20+ years experience of coaching and developing managers and leaders. The Manager\u2019s Dilemma is based on initial direct observations Irial made of behaviours she saw in her own team and how she responded.
\nWhile mentoring a group of senior managers, she realised they had similar issues within their teams, so she tested her theories with them, which resonated with them. She realised that while managers tend to be very good at problem-solving, they tend to be less good at developing other people\u2019s problem-solving skills, so she designed and delivered a well-received workshop. This book is based on the insights she gained through those workshops. She lives in Dublin with her husband, three kids and two cats.
\nSource: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B09FZV3Q8L
\nYou can find out more about Irial's work here.
\nBig idea #1\u200a\u2014\u200aThe Manager\u2019s Dilemma
\nThis is the tricky situation you find yourself in when you\u2019re promoted to a manager role, because you\u2019re good at problem solving, but you find yourself solving everyone else\u2019s problems, leaving your little time for your own. This creates a dynamic of dependence and learned helplessness, which Irial talks about throughout the book. She emphasises the fact that the manager\u2019s role is really to empower others, and to let go your need to fix other people\u2019s problems, instead investing that into developing your management skills.
\nOther than being quite stressful, this way of working is also hugely inefficient when the wrong people, spending the wrong amount of time on the wrong problems. It means no one\u2019s getting developed in the right skills, and it can actually diminish trust in teams too.
\nIdeally, you want to get to a point where there\u2019s only three reasons for escalation;
\nThese are obviously three quite broad reasons for escalation, but you would use this framework and tailor them to be more specific to your own needs of the project / team / organisation.
\nBig idea #2\u200a\u2014\u200aThe eight steps of problem\xa0solving
\nI thought this is one of the most useful parts of the book, to see the eight stages of problem solving in a very clear way for you to evaluate where each of your team members gets stuck along the steps (including you as the manager).
\nThe eight steps are;
\nWhilst some of this might feel intuitive, you sometimes identify that a team member isn\u2019t great at problem solving, but it\u2019s hard to break down to exactly what they struggle with. This also gives you an explicit, logical process that your team could work through as a bit of a checklist, and set an expectation of the questions you will ask them if they do come to you.\xa0
\nBig idea #3\u200a\u2014\u200aThe coaching\xa0approach
\nA large chunk of the book is dedicated to the manager having a conversation with her coach about the problem solving problems each of her team are having, and how to approach them. Together they come up with a bit of a plan of action.
\nIt\u2019s a bit meta as Trish is having a coaching conversation with her coach, so that she can then go back to her team and coach them. What\u2019s really clear is that questions are at the core of this\u200a\u2014\u200aboth Trish asking questions of herself, the coach asking questions to Trish, and Trish planning the questions to ask the team.
\nNote: this section of the book is written as an exchange between the coach and Irial, almost like a script, which was a useful way of seeing the level of detail that you need to go into when you\u2019re doing this level of coaching with a team member. It can help you to see some of the questions, considerations, perspectives from other people that you may miss if you just dive straight into trying to solve other people\u2019s problems, solving problems.
\nThis coaching approach allows for better problem solving, as it allows for input from the team members and to prompt their thinking, rather than giving them the answers. Especially relevant given the context of this challenge.
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