Reboot by Jerry Colonna: How to grow up and be a better leader

Published: May 31, 2020, 5 p.m.

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About the Book

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Jerry Colonna helps start-up CEOs make peace with their demons, the psychological habits and behavioral patterns that have helped them to succeed\u2014molding them into highly accomplished individuals\u2014yet have been detrimental to their relationships and ultimate well-being.

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Jerry has taught CEOs and their top teams to realize their potential by using the raw material of their lives to find meaning, to build healthy interpersonal bonds, and to become more compassionate and bold leaders. In\xa0Reboot, he inspires everyone to hold themselves responsible for their choices and for the possibility of truly achieving their dreams.

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Work does not have to destroy us. Work can be the way in which we achieve our fullest self, Jerry firmly believes. What we need, sometimes, is a chance to reset our goals and to reconnect with our deepest selves and with each other.\xa0Reboot\xa0moves and empowers us to begin this journey.

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Source:\xa0https://www.reboot.io/book/\xa0

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About the Author\xa0

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Jerry Colonna\xa0is the CEO, and co-founder, of Reboot.io, an executive coaching and leadership development firm whose coaches and facilitators are committed to the notion that better humans make better leaders.

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For nearly 20 years, he has used the knowledge gained as an investor, an executive, and a board member for more than 100 organizations to help entrepreneurs and others to lead with humanity, resilience, and equanimity. Previous to his career as a coach he was a partner with JPMorgan Partners (JPMP), the private equity arm of JP Morgan Chase. He joined JPMP from Flatiron Partners, which he launched 1996 with a partner, Fred Wilson. Flatiron became one of the most successful, early-stage investment programs in the New York City area. He lives in Boulder, Colorado.

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Source:\xa0https://www.reboot.io/about/founders/\xa0

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BIG IDEA 1 (7:55) \u2013 Do your own work.

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The most important role as a leader is to \u2018get yourself in order\u2019. Jerry\u2019s fundamental belief is that better humans make better leaders. He also said that leadership is the art of growing up. It\u2019s about getting over what happened to you before, putting aside some of those demons, and growing up.

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However, we often avoid doing our own work (ie working on ourselves) for the fear of what we might find.\xa0 We keep ourselves busy, moving, distracted, and tired.\xa0 We blame circumstances, our past, our lack of time, the company that we work for, and anything else to avoid stopping to reflect.\xa0 And so, continue to be controlled by our unconscious, our leftover fears and out old patterns of behaviour.

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BIG IDEA 2 (10:29) \u2013 Ask important questions.

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The book is full of incredible reflective questions.\xa0 There were three particular questions that Jerry talks about in the book;

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  • What am I not saying that needs to be said?
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  • What am I saying that\u2019s not being heard?
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  • What\u2019s being said that I\u2019m not hearing?
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Asking ourselves, and other people, these questions help us understand what\u2019s really going on.

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BIG IDEA 3 (12:19) \u2013 Stop the sabotage.

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There\u2019s another critical question in the book; how am I complicit in creating the conditions that I say I don\u2019t want?

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We are often contradicting ourselves between our actions and speech.\xa0 Saying we do/don\u2019t want something but acting in the total opposite way.

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Ask yourself some of these questions to see how, where, and why you\u2019re stopping yourself in reaching your potential, succeeding, and uncovering what\u2019s true to you.\xa0 It may be the irrational stories we tell ourselves, but without understanding this, they will continue to control and sabotage us.

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Links

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Check out Kelly Irvine\u2019s work helping people get their books out of their heads: https://www.kellyirving.com/
Listen to Jerry on the Tim Ferriss podcast here: https://tim.blog/2019/06/11/jerry-colonna/

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Music By:\xa0Ancient Sailing Song by Ziv Moran

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